Quote Originally Posted by che View Post
And, I am just nitpicking here, but...There are many relationships that "function" (or last the test of time, if you will say that's functioning) where one person may have settled and another was a reacher. But I do agree that it shouldn't be that way. And for me, I'd need both people to "try" in order for me to be happy.
What I meant to say was pretty much what you are saying here. Both people need to be giving in order for a happy healthy relationship to progress. Sure, some people are happy being the one that makes the effort, but certainly these kind of relationships are often doomed to failure.