A couple days ago, I was making a list of things about my own relationship to make the point that people reach for their partners in different ways. Like "well he's good at this, and I'm good at that... and he's good at this and... also this. And this and that. And this," and then started realizing that I really feel like I'M reaching. But I guarantee he would argue and say that if anyone is reaching, it would be him. That's how he is. Maybe people outside this (or any) relationship will have a varying opinion on who reached for whom based on their own priorities in a partner, but I don't think either of us feels like we settled. Our baby faces go pretty well together.



P.S. NOT BAD FOR SOMEONE WHO JUST WOKE UP FROM ANESTHESIA!