So this weekend I had my bachlorette party. My best friend/maid of honor set it all up, and everyone knew what she had planned. We rented a limo, went to a very upscale strip club called Le Bears (Men Strippers), and then danced the morning away at a common club.
Within' the night I got a stage dance, and a lap dance, and pictures were taken, my best friend threw up like 6 times, and my other friend passed out. All in all it was a good night for us...except the ones who got sick/passed out.
That morning my best friends boyfriend starts going through her camera, and he finds a picture. It looked like her face was near the stripper's butt while he was giving me a lap dance.In fact she had been laughing so hard at that moment that she was bent over in her chair, and the butt of the stripper just happened to be in the background. I admit it looked bad, but the size of the two images didn't match up, and I never saw her go near the stripper.
So after finding this picture he starts lysoling everything down, and telling her that she is immoral and probably disease ridden. She calls me and I talk her through it like I always do. I, however, remember that he is supposed to be at my wedding to usher and video record. So I ask him if he is still going to go through with it. Than he texts me back saying he will do it as long as I don't touch or breathe on him because I too might have a disease.I told Tom (my fiance) who in turn forbid him from coming to the wedding.
My question is: do you think Tom is taking it too far by forbidding her boyfriend from coming to the wedding?
I understand he should not have insinuated I have some kind of disease, nor that I am somehow immoral, but I don't want to hurt my best friend.
My second question is: What do you think my friend should do about her now very cleanly boyfriend?
What do you think about Male/Female strip clubs?
Would you be ok with your loved one going to a strip club?
Shouldn't my best friend stick up for me instead of being angry that her boyfriend can't come to the wedding?
***Keep in mind there was no nudity at all at this strip club. Just men dancing around in thier underwear. ***
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