Quote Originally Posted by Neo Necron View Post
With all due respect, it seems to me like both guys are completely over-reacting and a bigger deal has been made of all this than really is necessary.

If there was any mistake made at all here, it was probably your friend not asking her boyfriend what he thought of her going to a strip club.
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I completely agree; they are both over acting.I feel that if I tell my fiance that he is coming whether he likes it or not, and I go out on a limb and the guy does cause a scene. I will have had my day ruined, and it would be completely my fault. I don't like the idea of him staring at my friends like we're whores. He has done it before when he came with me and my bff to a club by me. Just sat, arms crossed, eying us, and trying not to have any fun.

The funny thing is...she did tell him what we were going to be doing. They live together...hard to keep something like that. She planned a month or so ahead of time. He had plenty of time to say something, and instead he told her he was ok with it. I ...seeing as I know the guy....kind of knew this would happen, and expressed that to my friend, but she believed otherwise.