My question is: do you think Tom is taking it too far by forbidding her boyfriend from coming to the wedding?

Nope, this guy is over-reacting, and saying he don't you to touch him or breath on him is being rude, and you don't want that to spoil your day.

My second question is: What do you think my friend should do about her now very cleanly boyfriend?

She should tell him that he is being stupid, she's not likely to have picked up anything from this stripper unless she went and slept with him, which she clearly hasn't.

What do you think about Male/Female strip clubs?

I have mixed opinions on them, depending on the type it is. Some strip clubs are upmarket and never go fully nude, those types I don't have a problem with.
My problem lies with the ones who strip to total nakedness, the person might have a good body but to me I can't undrestand why people would want to do it, it's degrading to themselves and for a woman, does she know what disgusting, pervy men are sitting there enjoying the show.

Would you be ok with your loved one going to a strip club?

No. I've told him this already. I'm not comfortable knowing that some girl is rubbing her breats in my partners face, and in the cheap seedy ones it is likely that people might be carrying some sort on STD.


Shouldn't my best friend stick up for me instead of being angry that her boyfriend can't come to the wedding?

If she was really a best friend she should of defended you, when her bf said he don't want you to touch him, that was uncalled for.