"Have you ever been in a controlled relationship?"

My current partner tries to be controlling but I don't always let him. Sometimes I will be the one in control and I will fight to get what I want and he wont get a say, and other times I just cant be bothered cos we clash over so many things I just backdown to shut him up.

"Have you ever been in a relationship that you thought was SO RIGHT, even though your family disapproved, only later to 'snap out of it' and wondered what you were thinking?"

It's funny this thread is here cos only the other day my dad was telling me how I could do so much better than the guy I'm with now, My whole family tells me I can do better. In a way I believe I probably could do better than him but I just cant be bothered to go through the hassle of breaking up and finding someone new.
I did open my eyes to what a crap relationship I was in and we split up last year. He gave me so much crap over it, always calling and slagging me off, sending texts saying how he wish me and my lil girl were dead other texts threatening to go to the social and have her taken away from me, hanging around outside my front door banging on it for hours on end. It lasted for about 6months and then he changed and we tried again after him swearing he will be a better boyfriend, which lasted a couple of months then he went back to his childish, selfish , cheating ways again and apart if me do want to break up with him cos im a better person without him but I cant be bothered to deal with the crap again.