Quote Originally Posted by Alpha View Post
If that occurred on any other night than the guy's own stag night, then yes, I'd agree with you. But the whole point of a stag night is very brief escapism from a lifelong commitment, and a test of the strength of that committment. It is meant to say: "you could have this for the rest of your life, but you're choosing to marry?" If you still choose to forgo a wild life of titties and marry your partner, you've said "I know what I'm missing, yet I'm choosing to commit to you in the full knowledge of it". I think that's stronger, IMO.
Thats well put. But I've had my fair share and since I started this relationship I have with my gf, I would do absolutley nothing to risk upsetting her or hurting her, especially since shes so very wonderful to me. Thats just my view, I hope you could respect that. I understand where you are coming from, though. It is also as I said before, people are different, relationships are different and I suppose that if its okay with you and your partner, then theres nothing to be concerned about.