Bucks = bachelor, just in case we have a language barrier here.
Okay so i've been pondering this ever since I went to my first ever bucks night for a friend.
Why the hell would you do that?
Im not going into specifics here. but lets say there were a few naked waitresses and were very friendly with the bucks.
Isn't that technically cheating? I mean, I know theres tradition and all, but theres no way I would disrespect my girlfriend/future wife in such a way, I find that to be reprehensible when you are in a relationship. although Im not talking about kissing or anything, the fact there are girls there grinding and making you grab their tits is not any sort of way to celebrate the fact your going to be married to the one you love the most in this world.
Ive made it incredibly clear that come my night, there will be no such thing, if there was to be (as a cruel joke), there would be more than a few dissapointed people since I would send them away with their full pay. Im not a traditional guy, I dont think theres any kind of party that can justify such irresponsible behaviour. I probably sound like a darn party pooper right now, but if i care about someone enough to marry them, then respecting my wife comes first. This is especially important if you know she shares the same opinion as you. Afterall, what chance does a marriage have if you cant trust a person.
So I guess what I'm making this thread for to discuss is,
Have you ever been to a bucks/hens night?
Do you agree with my point of view?
what would your perfect bucks/hens night consist of?
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