The issue isn't with them serviing drinks. Feeling them up and having them grind on you would certainly consitute some raw feelings (especially in your partner), wouldnt it? Its far from ludicrous. Belittling the situation by calling it a 'single night' does not justify anything. And im not calling it an extra marital affair, mostly because noone is married yet, but the titles are meaningless. You are in a relationship, plain and simple.
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