Nobody's Perfect

[AshNStuff]

I just wanted to make a thread where everybody can discuss their flaws, or what they don't like about themselves, without having to feel judged. We all know that nobody is perfect, and I wanna know what makes you unique

I guess I'll start, I have so many things about myself that I want to change... but at the moment I guess I'm bothered by the fact that I'm such a perfectionist. It's really stressful, I'm always so hard on myself and I freak out over tiny errors. It would be nice to truly not give a damn about such little things.. it overruns my thoughts sometimes and it's just overwhelming.

[loaf]

Receding hairline.

[AshNStuff]

Receding hairline.

I'm sure it's not bad

[Polk]

I'm too perfect.

[TerraWham]

I'm too perfect.

doubt it if you look like that picture 0_0

i dont like my weight and hair.
HAIR NEVER GOES THE WAY I WANT IT I HATE IT SO BAD *RAGEEEEEE*

[Halie]

I don't like my freckles at all. I have one on my nose which is right between my eyes which I do like, but I hate the majority of the freckles on my face. I'm jealous of people who look nice with freckles. What's more annoying is when I say this to a person, they almost always say "don't hate your freckles, they give you character! Blah blah blah!". Oh yeah, sure, that makes me like them so much more.

I also don't like my weight, but I can change that, and I'm trying to. Freckles are a bit harder to change. I don't like how shy I am either, but again, I can actually change this, and it has changed quite a bit. I'm a lot more confident than I was this time last year lol.

[NikkiLinkle]

I'm afraid I'm not living. I don't have the motivation or feeling to do or try anything outside my comfort zone.

I don't like being around people for long periods of time.

I crave a close friendship, but I'm afraid I can't be a good friend in return, due to my personal issues. I always feel lonely, but I prefer to be alone.

I'm very particular. I like what I like and avoid most things I don't like.

I can't drive.

I'm always upset!

I'm pretty sure I'm ugly and it really bothers me. But I believe that I'd still be a downer even if I was pretty.

I feel like I'm not experiencing life enough. But I'm too scared to do anything about it, because I guess I don't like change. I like routine. I like to know what's going to happen next.

It feels good to get all that out there.

[Judge Magistrate]

I can be somewhat overbearing. I think everyone is my friend and if someone has different idea and makes it known to me, awkward. I can't really talk to girls face to face, sure I've used some pick up lines, but it always ends the same, failure.

I really wish I could talk to girls .

[Unknown Entity]

I'm a little chubby. I wish to loose some weight, but nothing has ever worked for me. I loose a little weight now and then, but I gain it back eventually. Could be worse though.

My teeth aren't sparkly white either up close. From a distance (say I'm talking to someone across a table) they seem okay.

My hair never does what I want it to do, so I always have to tie it back. Apparently it looks beautiful down, but I don't see it. To me, it makes my forehead look twice as tall.

I'm easily irked and stressed out. A friend didn't wait for me to say goodnight to them last night before they logged off (after saying goodnight to me), and it put me in a sour mood for a while. You should also see how angry I get at work when I noticed someone's ****ed the preowned stuff up. ¬¬;

[Rocky]

I have a habit of shutting people out irl when I shouldn't be, and I don't have the greatest self-confidence.

I have no idea why, but the type of girls I attract are pretty shitty sometimes lol: crazies, girls in relationships, girls in relationships with friends of mine, and stalkers. The girls that I do like see me as a "good friend" or a "brother". smh.

When I get drunk, things can get pretty problematic too. Feelings get hurt because I become boss troll while drunk.

I'm poor and have no job at the moment. That's kind of a problem lol.

I have a couple really close friends I can discuss literally anything with, but theyre all hours away. I can make acquitences no problem, but those people usually don't "get" me.

[Rowan]

I have trouble expressing myself sometimes. Growing up being the class clown was an easy way for me to identify myself to people. I still try to poke fun at myself to get a chuckle from my friends, but theres really only one that understands me. Sometimes its hard to get people to take me seriously, now that i've been out in the real world. In order to do so, I need to become stern and appear angry to get the understanding I require. I'm also impatient and have really high standards. Whilst having high standards can be a good thing which makes one strive for the best, it can often be depressing when things tend to not usually go my way.

[Clint]

I'm too perfect.

Goddamn it, you stole my joke.

[Leon]

I'm a little chubby. I wish to loose some weight, but nothing has ever worked for me. I loose a little weight now and then, but I gain it back eventually. Could be worse though.

My teeth aren't sparkly white either up close. From a distance (say I'm talking to someone across a table) they seem okay.

My hair never does what I want it to do, so I always have to tie it back. Apparently it looks beautiful down, but I don't see it. To me, it makes my forehead look twice as tall.

I'm easily irked and stressed out. A friend didn't wait for me to say goodnight to them last night before they logged off (after saying goodnight to me), and it put me in a sour mood for a while. You should also see how angry I get at work when I noticed someone's ****ed the preowned stuff up. ¬¬;

We are so alike. Are you SURE we are not related at all?

Aside from that, I also tend to be a little insecure sometimes. True, I can keep my cool when talking to girls. But when you're a fast texter like me, 5 minutes seems like an eternity. My insecurities mainly center around girls. At one point or another, I make the mistake of asking them if I'm bothering them. So, um, yeah.

Also, sometimes when I speak my mouth can be unforgiving and just pronounces words in a different way than they're supposed to. Sometimes, people have a hard time understanding what I'm trying to say.

[Meier Link]

I am loud, obnoxious, have no trouble speaking my mind, don't have a filter, and am brutaqlly honest. The last part doesn't seem like a bad thing until people start getting their feelings hurt.

According to the girlfriend, I am an asshole. Generally I would disagree but I do have my moments which sadly have started to happen more and more frequantly. Mix this with being brtally honest and you can see why people get butt hurt.

I have weight issues. I am overly skinny but still very muscular. Have lost 30lbs since I went to nights but both have changed in the last week so hopefully things are on the up and up.

Arrogant and proud. I know I am a good looking and I use it to influance. Same with my ability to reaed people. Don't do it often but I know I can and its really not nice when I do.


Then again some of these traights have become more prodomanant over the last year and all the shit that I went through. Its not a valid excuse for being a pric but at tims its better the talking to people haha.

[Firefly]

I'm a little chubby. I wish to loose some weight, but nothing has ever worked for me. I loose a little weight now and then, but I gain it back eventually. Could be worse though.

My teeth aren't sparkly white either up close. From a distance (say I'm talking to someone across a table) they seem okay.

My hair never does what I want it to do, so I always have to tie it back. Apparently it looks beautiful down, but I don't see it. To me, it makes my forehead look twice as tall.

I have the exact same problems. My hair is what aggravates me the most,mine is naturally curly and I absolutely can not straighten or use irons on it,it just..will always go back curly >.<

I also have the problem of over worrying myself about grades and such. I do my best to make A's and B's,but when I think I am gonna get a C or something..I worry about it for weeks.

I'm mostly impatient,I get emotionally hurt very easily :/,and I never like the way I look.

[Oneesan]

There are way too many!!!

I am impatient, can't stand wauting for anything and have been known to throw a fit about it.

I really don't like being around people irl, I hardly ever leave the house.

I have put on too much weight in the past 3 yrs, and am not really doing much to remedy that.

I am never the one to stay in contact with family/friends, it is always the other way around.

I can't stand cleaning, I do it anyways, just not very well.

And I always spend WAY too much time online.

Oh, and apparently I am an evil b**ch, don't know why, but I guess I'll just go with it

[Judge Magistrate]

I have the exact same problems. My hair is what aggravates me the most,mine is naturally curly and I absolutely can not straighten or use irons on it,it just..will always go back curly >.<

I also have the problem of over worrying myself about grades and such. I do my best to make A's and B's,but when I think I am gonna get a C or something..I worry about it for weeks.

I'm mostly impatient,I get emotionally hurt very easily :/,and I never like the way I look.

I like the way you look .


[QUOTE=I have no idea why, but the type of girls I attract are pretty shitty sometimes lol: crazies, girls in relationships, girls in relationships with friends of mine, and stalkers. The girls that I do like see me as a "good friend" or a "brother". smh.[/QUOTE]


Dude, you get me, I have the same exact problems. I feel a kindred spirit .

[seanb]

Whenever I sit on the toilet, my willy dips in the water.

[che]

My family is middle class white people, and they're racist. I can't seem to get away from it, fully. I love them but I hate them.

[Xanatos]

I'm a little chubby. I wish to loose some weight, but nothing has ever worked for me. I loose a little weight now and then, but I gain it back eventually. Could be worse though.

My teeth aren't sparkly white either up close. From a distance (say I'm talking to someone across a table) they seem okay.

Same here, though I'm not really chubby, I got a beer belly, it's something I gained over the past few years while not being really active, but drinking noticeably more. I'm working out right now to trim it down a bit, it's gonna be a long, and painful process it seems =(.

I also wish I was less stubborn, quite often I defend my view on certain things even though I'm clearly wrong.

[nickness89]

I have a few too many to handle myself:

I am too empathetic, I can read people far too well and it leads to me feeling the same emotions as them, I think there's a name for that, I dunno, but if somebody cries, then you can bet i'll cry with them.

I am overly sensitive to mess. If there is a t-shirt lying on the floor or something, I will literally scream my way through the house to find out who left it there, and tell them to wash it. Same with other things like wrappers and empty bottles etc.

I hate my neck ... it's like ever since I started working out a couple of years ago, my neck seems to be the muscliest part of me, and it freaks me out, I used to be so proud of having a long slender neck ... like a swan

I love my family to bits, including my mum, but she passively-aggressively adds comment about gay people in the hope i'll turn straight, like the other day when I went to visit her she saw a baby on the television and said "awww, look at the wee bairn, I can't wait to have grandchildren, not that I will be able to anymore" ... first of all, I am hoping to adopt within the next 15 years, so there will be a grandchild. Second of all, I am one of seven children, she still has six chances to have grandchildren!!

I am usually very forgiving of people, like I have a first impression obviously, but I give people chances, and they just blow it, then I give more chances. I wish I could just go on first impressions, they are usually right with me.

I have one pupil larger than the other ... my left pupil stays dilated most of the time, while the right pupil reacts to light much better.

I have a terrible eating habit. One week i'll binge on junk and fizzy juice. The next week i'll eat healthily on eggs, raisins, nuts, prunes and in place of juice I have 3 litres of water a day. I may have a nice physique, but I look like a milk bottle being so white, probably vitamin deficiency

Some days i will like being around lots of people, then another day I will be a total recluse and not talk to anyone

[Judge Magistrate]

Same here, though I'm not really chubby, I got a beer belly, it's something I gained over the past few years while not being really active, but drinking noticeably more. I'm working out right now to trim it down a bit, it's gonna be a long, and painful process it seems =(.

I also wish I was less stubborn, quite often I defend my view on certain things even though I'm clearly wrong.

I wouldn't really call that second one a fault. Everyone does that, or at least every male does. It's a pride thing, guys hate to be wrong I've decided. Also, I'm sure your beer belly isn't that bad.

[Fluffy]

I'm afraid I'm not living. I don't have the motivation or feeling to do or try anything outside my comfort zone.

I don't like being around people for long periods of time.

I crave a close friendship, but I'm afraid I can't be a good friend in return, due to my personal issues. I always feel lonely, but I prefer to be alone.

I'm very particular. I like what I like and avoid most things I don't like.

I can't drive.

I'm always upset!

I'm pretty sure I'm ugly and it really bothers me. But I believe that I'd still be a downer even if I was pretty.

I feel like I'm not experiencing life enough. But I'm too scared to do anything about it, because I guess I don't like change. I like routine. I like to know what's going to happen next.

It feels good to get all that out there.

I don't remember posting in this thread.

I'm a no-life good-for-nothing and I don't have the will to change it.

Pretty much everything I quoted there, except for the being pretty part. I don't have a problem with how I look, but I don't think I look great either.

And despite me not liking being around people, I do want one really good friend.

[sayian]

wow,, ive sat and read almost all of these posts. some are changeable, like, immediately. some are, but only with patience and will. some are mental changes.
just say f&*kit and get up and do it, the world is yours, change it if u care to..
i think im pretty comfortable with myself. i like how open minded i am and my will for understanding what matters. i like the way i see people and the things i notice about them. i like my curiosity, but yet my somewhat small frame of mind. i can go on lol.. so my fear IS changing.

[AshNStuff]

I'm afraid I'm not living. I don't have the motivation or feeling to do or try anything outside my comfort zone.

I don't like being around people for long periods of time.

I crave a close friendship, but I'm afraid I can't be a good friend in return, due to my personal issues. I always feel lonely, but I prefer to be alone.

I'm very particular. I like what I like and avoid most things I don't like.

I can't drive.

I'm always upset!

I'm pretty sure I'm ugly and it really bothers me. But I believe that I'd still be a downer even if I was pretty.

I feel like I'm not experiencing life enough. But I'm too scared to do anything about it, because I guess I don't like change. I like routine. I like to know what's going to happen next.

It feels good to get all that out there.

It sounds like we have a lot in common nikki either way, I'm happy that made you feel a little better!


@ nickness - you seem very particular about the things you don't like, but I'm glad you got it all off your shoulders sweetie I'm really glad so many people did on this thread. But I understand many of the things you talk about, just finding these small things that you hate about yourself... but don't lose your mind over it I think you're very handsome

[Furore]

I drink too much, smoke too much, sometimes act too rashly when driven by guilt, pride or empathy, can't always hold my punches as much as I want when wanting to cause minimal damage, sometimes can't get a random useless concept out of my head (and I constantly expand on whatever it is), patch myself up or ignore damage as I dislike hospitals despite risk of further damage, have an at times poor memory, useless fine motor skills, occasionally ramble and get sidetracked, am that large some employers dismiss me with a glance (others like security want me right away), can be self deprecative, will drop old friends if I disagree with their actions be they direct or indirect and sometimes I'm that asshole that doesn't discourage others from trying to beat me physically or at drinking, despite knowing the possible consequences to their health. Also, I'm tone deaf, which isn't that bad as my voice is low and singing makes me feel like I'm gargling rocks.

[TerraWham]

I drink too much, smoke too much, sometimes act too rashly when driven by guilt, pride or empathy, can't always hold my punches as much as I want when wanting to cause minimal damage, sometimes can't get a random useless concept out of my head (and I constantly expand on whatever it is), patch myself up or ignore damage as I dislike hospitals despite risk of further damage, have an at times poor memory, useless fine motor skills, occasionally ramble and get sidetracked, am that large some employers dismiss me with a glance (others like security want me right away), can be self deprecative, will drop old friends if I disagree with their actions be they direct or indirect and sometimes I'm that asshole that doesn't discourage others from trying to beat me physically or at drinking, despite knowing the possible consequences to their health. Also, I'm tone deaf, which isn't that bad as my voice is low and singing makes me feel like I'm gargling rocks.

i'm 18 and ive never had 1 drop of alcohol in my body also never tried smoking. I don't understand why people like it 0_0

[AshNStuff]

I drink too much, smoke too much, sometimes act too rashly when driven by guilt, pride or empathy, can't always hold my punches as much as I want when wanting to cause minimal damage, sometimes can't get a random useless concept out of my head (and I constantly expand on whatever it is), patch myself up or ignore damage as I dislike hospitals despite risk of further damage, have an at times poor memory, useless fine motor skills, occasionally ramble and get sidetracked, am that large some employers dismiss me with a glance (others like security want me right away), can be self deprecative, will drop old friends if I disagree with their actions be they direct or indirect and sometimes I'm that asshole that doesn't discourage others from trying to beat me physically or at drinking, despite knowing the possible consequences to their health. Also, I'm tone deaf, which isn't that bad as my voice is low and singing makes me feel like I'm gargling rocks.

hahaha I like you I know I smoke too much, and I starting drinking heavily for a while but forced myself to stop because alcoholism runs in my family and I don't wanna be like my mom, but I still enjoy drinking basically whenever my bf does and I definitely act stupid sometimes whenever I get angry or inspired by something. So you're not alone

[NikkiLinkle]

i'm 18 and ive never had 1 drop of alcohol in my body also never tried smoking. I don't understand why people like it 0_0

I'm not 18 and I've tried drinking but didn't like it. I too don't understand what the big deal is. But as long as people enjoy themselves and are safe it's right I guess. People tend to over do it. My mother is a big drinker and I don't like to around her when she drinks. My boyfriend is the same, he can't have a couple of beers, he has to drink a whole carton? I don't get it. It's a real turn off.

I've been out like 3 times and I felt soo out of place. So I don't drink, smoke, do drugs or go out. I end up alone most weekends, because my boyfriend goes out all the time. Kinda sucks. I don't go with him because I know I won't enjoy myself

I'm always thinking. I find it hard to stop and it stresses me out so much. The past couple of days I've been thinking hardcore! My head feels like it's going to explode.

I'm indecisive. I never know what I want.

[GypsyElder]

#1 pet peeve about myself:
I'm horribly lazy, and it's quite the unattractive trait. It's something I've learned to accept. I don't necessarily mean I'm a fat slob couch potato that refuses to do anything with her life, but it takes motivation for me to want to get out of the house on my free time. Sure, of course it's okay to want to lounge around in a muumuu (I don't really wear muumuus) and bask in the glory of a day off, but I've been doing that for 2 years straight minus smidgets of class here and there. If I was not working now, it would be the same bum routine. What doesn't help me any, is pet peeve #2 about myself.

....#2) I like being by myself. Don't get me wrong, I still go out and enjoy the company of others, I like people, I like watching others in public (not stalking) but I like to observe. Simple things make me happy. I don't enjoy expressing personal shit to people because when I do go out, I like to laugh, and bringing up shit that's a nuance at that time--does not induce laughter. The problem here is that I never really express problems or issues that should probably be vented. In other words, I'm a little bit too much to myself--maybe.