Equality is far too confusing for it's own good. I'm very passionate about this subject, and the same situations can be seen outside of gender.

I'm gay, and have lots of gay friends as you would expect, and I am sick of seeing gay rights constantly banged on about. Yes, gay rights is important to us, but I am more interested in having equality for ALL people, regardless of sex, race, religion, orientation, anything. My gay friends, including some gay people talking about rights in the media, constantly bang on about gay rights this, gay rights that ... but then everyday I see them discriminate other minorities. This extremely pi**es the hell out of me.

I think this is pretty much the same scenario you are talking about ... that feminists are fighting for women's rights, even though lots of feminists in turn discriminate others.

I say, every equal rights campaign should be made in an attempt for EVERYONE to have equal rights, and if we can't do that without the minorities arguing, then obviously this world will never ever have such a thing as "equality" (which it probably never will ... the world will always have minorities that will be discriminated).

EDIT: Main point = Lead By Example!!