how to find a nerd

[DragonHeart]

Go to a crowded place and yell something in Klingon (Elvish if you prefer fantasy)?

I'm actually a bit similar, I'm working full time, going to school and have fairly anti-social hobbies. I have two really good meatspace friends and a lot of acquaintances. I too am single. I'm still in the despairing stage though, mostly because I've too much going on right now to do anything about it heh.

Sounds like you're going to places solely to look for a relationship, and the problem with that is your desperation is going to show to anyone who talks to you.

The advice that was given to me, that I haven't put to use yet, is to go out and do shit. Go to concerts, go to the beach, the theater, go out and do whatever's fun and makes you happy. While you're there, talk to people, not just the hot girls. Make new friends. Eventually you'll be friends with a girl you really like and can go from there. Going around to places looking for a close/intimate relationship right off the bat is setting yourself up for either failure or the wrong kind of girl.

~DragonHeart~

[Rocky]

The advice that was given to me, that I haven't put to use yet, is to go out and do shit. Go to concerts, go to the beach, the theater, go out and do whatever's fun and makes you happy. While you're there, talk to people, not just the hot girls. Make new friends. Eventually you'll be friends with a girl you really like and can go from there. Going around to places looking for a close/intimate relationship right off the bat is setting yourself up for either failure or the wrong kind of girl.

~DragonHeart~

The only problem with this strategy DragonHeart is that ultimatekupo is a girl so idk how effective that it will be lol, unless you're into girls of course, which is totally cool too.

Scroll to the top of the forum, click the 6th option "members list", then pick your favorite letter. After that pick a random name and there you go. All in all we are all nerds in our own right.

Too bad this would work only if you were secretly every member on TFF <3

By saying that you're trying to stand out, you're doing the exact opposite of what you should be doing. Trying to do something that's not you in order to attract a guy shows two things: desperation and a lack of self-confidence. You should be confident enough to know that you can attract someone, and that you're good enough or cool enough to have them stick around for you, and not because they think they're gonna get laid after the first date. You should also be laid back in your approach, or else you'll seem clingy and desperate.

Real talk.

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DOS:

*be adventurous
*try new things
*meet new people
*be passionate about your interests and actively persue them
*be openminded!

Do not:
*compromise being yourself for the sake of finding someone
*be clingy and/or desperate; being friendly is one thing but guys hate being hounded all the time by girls, even the hot ones like Jessica Alba (bitch kept calling me all hours of the night so I had to change numbers)
*have low self-confidence. If this is the case then I strongly suggest not even looking for a significant other until this is changed otherwise you are more likely to end up in a bad relationship.

You said you were extremely busy, what kind of things do you do outside of school?