oh jeez. this is the wrong demographic to ask about religion. >.<
Before i say anything else, i think it's worth mentioning i didn't bother reading the 2nd and 3rd pages of this thread. Therefore, anything said in those pages are, obviously, ignored.
I myself am a very spiritual christian. I believe in the one God, the holy trinity. And i believe that that IS the right way to think. BUT (wait and listen, this part's cool) i believe it is futal to force that belief on another, for the simple reason that if there relationship with God is not authentic, then they wont be granted access to heaven. You see, the religion itself is not the important thing. It's the spiritual relationship with Jesus Christ. I myself am a nondenominational christian. (Although i have thought about catholocism.) I used to go to church all the time, but ever since we moved we have been going to that church a lot less. But my spiritual relationship with Jesus Christ has not been extinguished.
One of the reasons i think my relationship with Jesus means so much to me is becouse i actually chose him on my own. My parents were always openly christian, but i hadnt been to church since i was a toddler (i faintly remember something about crying in church cause i left my apple in sunday school. i have NO IDEA why i remember that, lol.) Anyways, while i believed there was a God, i never thought about religion until around 5th grade or so. Around then, i found my dad's bible. Instead of reading it, i flipped to the end cover, where a portrat of Jesus nailed to the cross was. I asked my dad (we were in the car, i dont know why he kept his old bible in his truck of all places) "who's this?" My dad looked back at me and said "that's Jesus" (in an actually sincere way). I asked why he was nailed to the cross, and my dad said he died for my sins. I didn't fully understand at the time (if memory serves), but for the first time i started actively thinking about God. After my dad saw me praying one night, he asked me if i wanted to go to church, and i said i did. Then when we went, the pastor asked everyone at the end of the service if they needed a savior, and i turned to my dad and said "what should i do?" I didn't realize how important this was till years later, but he turned to me and said "it's your choice". I'm not sure if he even realizes to this day how important those words were.
Now dont get me wrong. I'm not saying that those people introduced to religion by there parents have any less of a spiritual relationship then me. I would never claim or imply such a thing. I just mean that in my case, coming to God on my own was exactly the spiritual opportunity that i needed. But everyone is different. Getting a spiritual connection to God through a family member might work best for others, as long as there spirituality is genuine.
A question you might ask me is "How do you even know God exists?" It's hard to explain, but God has proven himself to me time and time again. I'm not the type to not question things. I have always been a stickler for cut and clean facts. (Probably why i got along so much better with math then english in school.) I have had spiritual doubts just like anyone else. But God has always proven himself to me, and has always helped me. And looking back at my life, God is the only reason i can really find joy in anything else.
I guess you could also ask me why i think people need my faith to find salvation. Actually, it's not a question of "my faith". You see, a relationship with Jesus is not as narrow as some people make it out to be. The church you go to, or whether you go to church at all, is not the point. Salvation is through Jesus, not through your daily ritual. So we could have differences in our perception of God, but still have the same fundamental beliefs. Church is, of course, a great place to meet other christians. And we, as christians, are supposed to meet with other christians and grow spiritually with them. Church accomplishes it's purposes, and few are as extreme as some people make them out to be. I'm sure i already said this, but i took a break halfway through writing this massive wall of text, and dont remember. XD
Also, i dont like it when people hold up extreme examples like the Phelps family. The Phelps represent not even 0.001% of christian kind. In fact, there not christians at all.
yep.
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