My vote is no, although I would love for you to get pleasure out of her pain, it is not right. [What were you going to do anyway?]
Let her bask in her own negativity, don't contribute to it. People like her don't want to be that way, they don't like being that way, it's just that conditioning and forceful positions make them into people they really aren't. What I say is that, when you can and at your own pace, find a new job. Trust me, there's always more good paying jobs out there- and just leave her behind. For the time being however, just [I know this is EXTREME difficult to do, trust me, I know] ignore her, forget about her, play along with her cynical game. Amuse yourself with how selfish and ignorant she really is, maybe even add to it by dying your hair another natural color and telling her "Why, this IS my natural hair color" and smiling in her face. There's millions of possibilities to severely scare/torture/or disturb her without ever making it obvious. Just don't hurt her, because years from now you'll regret it. She doesn't wish to be that way, it's something nobody ever wants to turn into.
My vote: No.
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