Quote Originally Posted by Govinda View Post

Is your husband thinking of doing it for the money and training? Or for another reason?
The money. He's had the same job for 3 years now, but it's moving 3 hours away. We can't see ourselves moving that far from our families. However, now that he has a chance to switch careers.....this whole military thing has popped back into his head. I say that because he was going to join about 5 years ago, but he ended up moving around and doing other things. Now he is more serious about it.

I am just as scared about something happening. I finally find a man that I can see myself growing old with, and he wants to go join the military. Long nights, and constant moving. IDK if I could handle that. Even though he may not be stationed anywhere near combat....there is always a chance he later will be.

I hope your brother knows what he's doing as well. It's hard to see your loved ones do things you know might get them hurt, but than agian you can get hurt anywhere these days.