I think HA makes good points. Coming from his sociopathic point of veiw, his judgements are not clouded by the veil emotion, which many people allow to dictate their logic. I dont agree that all relationships work on levels of who cares the most. I would think that if two people wanted to be together, they would equally be invested into the relationship. I think that there are some things that only a person capable of understanding and wanting a relationship could comprehend. Saviour_21, I think you are feeling empty, does that word sum it all up adequately? You want someone in your life to fill this void (hey, even a dog would have done). Well, emptiness is one of the hardest feelings to deal with because its causes are unique to the inidividual. If you were to ask me to help you understand what is causing this emptiness so that you could deal with it, what would you hope to hear? Tell me.