Siblings and how you deal with them

[Dodie16]

I have three brothers and no sisters, so I was horribly outnumbered. When you have those kind of odds stacked against you, you learn pretty quickly how to retaliate when someone messes with you. I never got overly violent, but I would smack my brothers around if I thought it was needed. I never got in trouble for it either, and yeah, I used it to my advantage sometimes.

Sorry that your sis is driving you crazy, but like Entity said, it's probably not all the time that she does it. Try hanging out with her, and do some of the stuff that she likes to do. Chances are, she just wants the attention, so give her some positive attention instead of having to argue and fight with her. You'll both be happier because of it, and share some nice moments that you'll treasure for a long time.

[Zargabaath]

Back in the day I use to fight with my older sister, I think our hostility towards each other started when she pushed me off the turtle sandbox and I hit my head on the cement base of the house. After a while my sister and I grew up and our differences dissipated.

However, some time later I started getting into it heated talking matches with my younger sister and her most "happy" attitude. Eventually things died down, not her attitude though, I guess I largely ignored her and that was that.

Now, I hardly deal with either one of them, much less know what is going on in their lives as I don't call them or talk to them really. All of my information comes from what I overhear other people saying.

[The Dark Crystal]

Im the oldest out of 6 siblings and i am staying with two of them now. My little brother Adam is 5, and my sister Allie is 7, we don't really fight and they are actually really cool siblings. I guess they look up to me because when i tell them to do something they listen (most of the time ) I mainly have to pull them off each other, becasue they like to fight over the Wii, and the cable, but other then that they get along just fine. When they don't listen they hear that click, click, click sound from when the belt comes off Lmao! Jk
When they do make a fuss the most i do is ground them, but i can never really follow through with that becasue i feel bad for them.

[Rocky]

I got one little brother (16 years old). We have our moments, both good and bad. We're both chill, but we can both get territorial at times, which is what seems to set each other off more often then not. I don't like it when he's on my computer, he doesn't like it when I wear his shoes, etc. We both get along though for the most part. Like for example we had some banter between us just a few minutes ago, which involved him calling me a "fag" for my faux hawk, and me calling him a "queer" for him going tanning after work tonight. It was all in good fun though, kinda how we show our appreciation and caring towards one another. We'd still stick up for each other thick and thin, cause we the only siblings we got!!

[bahamuts heir]

I have three brothers and no sisters, so I was horribly outnumbered. When you have those kind of odds stacked against you, you learn pretty quickly how to retaliate when someone messes with you. I never got overly violent, but I would smack my brothers around if I thought it was needed. I never got in trouble for it either, and yeah, I used it to my advantage sometimes.

Sorry that your sis is driving you crazy, but like Entity said, it's probably not all the time that she does it. Try hanging out with her, and do some of the stuff that she likes to do. Chances are, she just wants the attention, so give her some positive attention instead of having to argue and fight with her. You'll both be happier because of it, and share some nice moments that you'll treasure for a long time.

Dang but hopefully you're right about finding things she likes( I really doubt it's attention. She once pants herself in front of the people on her bus.

[Ralz]

I have one brother...








...but he's 38, so forget him.

But in the time has was around, he was... wierd... Not so much annoying or mean as... just weird. Its like he was constantly going on about his ego or something. Even as a kid, I was weirded out. But it hardly matters anymore, because I saw him again a couple months ago after 5 or so years. He's a total 300 pounder, and his love life is ruined, so he's living in rent. o_O