i have some insite on this situtation, i was older dating a younger girl and regarless of the whole sex situtation there is the metal status of the couple. a 17 year old is still in high school or is just getting out. the 21 year old has that whole college thing under their belt or still is in college....or just never went and is doing whatever. but still the mental mind set is so different. ohhh i know the 21 year old is going to say but she is soooo mature for her age, yeah yeah yeah. i dont care how mature you are but ur not mature enough to have a relationship with a 21 year old. believe me, i dated a girl who was more then 4 years younger then me and i really thought she was mature but i was very wrong. i had made amends with fighting with my parents and she was still mouthing off and getting grounded.

so before i keep repeating myself....

its not just the sex u gotta think about its the mental state