tbh, i think that's utter bollocks, it's simply the longer you are with someone the more you can take them for granted/stop making the effort...on both sides... so its just about not doing that and both working at it to keep it good, i know i can go way longer than i should for a woman without shaving my legs, would never of done that at the start of our relationship lol. I think we are all alot more selfish these days and we are all busier, and stop makign as much effort...that will build up over time I suppose and a wedding i guess can distract from that for a while, so maybe it's suddenly more noticable once you are actually married. its lifestyle not 'we're married now, i don't love you as much' that's just dumb

i do wonder though, if its partly to do with an anticlimax from the marriage, you do all that planning for god knows how long, spend a shit tonne of money, then really, other than her surname (or his, if you wnat to be pedantic) and the rings - but nothing else changes, i guess its like when you turn 13 and you think OMFG IM GUNNA BE A TEENAGER!!! and you feel exactly the same as you did the day before.... hahaha

i dont expect an anticlimax from my wedding, im lucky in the sense that ive HATED planning this mother****ign wedding and can't wait for the honeymoon and for it all to be over and done with then we can chill out and i can redecorate this bastard house.

I ramble lol