Hey! Lot has just happened since I've been gone and just recently(apparently). I've been reflecting on it all...pondering it all about. See, I'm pretty laidback(or have at least become laidback recently). I find it pretty ****ing hard to get involved in Drama. I just really...idk. Some people seem to really love it. I never got that. (I also get drafted to pick sides in a fight(too many times), when I really have nothing at stake, don't care and just want to take it easy.)

But here recently, I found out that a member of my family, who has been gone since before I was born and returned about eight years ago, was a...well, a pretty low criminal. He wasn't a murderer, but think about the next worse thing and that's him. He never told anyone and kept it secret. Well he had to be admitted to a Nursing Home and then...well, the story came out. It wrecked a lot of the remaining portion of my family.

In another case, there was someone on youtube that I watched. I did not know them; I only watched them recently. They were funny and very...idk spazzy. Then their videos disappeared, twitter account closed, Twitch TV account closed. And I find that the person in question was pregnant and had killed herself. I've never met her, don't even know what she looks like(more to the point I don't know she even really killed herself)

Either way, this isn't a pity-me thread. (none of this shit happened to me, I'm not bawling tears, don't care) I just want to know from you guys...how do you deal with this?

Do you ignore it?
Do you bury yourself in it?
Do you try to talk it out?
Do you pick sides?


-Sin