How can I dress more ff?

[do re mi ti la]

My pic in avatar,
in highshool I had some ff friends but always stood out cuz how I dressed

I wanna get a good ff look, but not too wild

I have black hair cuz indian, but I keep it short cuz its relly thick and wavy and I can't make it like yalls where u got it like long and to the side

Ill keep wearing jeans, but gonna get more black clothes, where should I go? Cuz tbh hot topic clothes scare me but maybe I can find cool stuff online?

I got a few black under shirts, and plan to buy a pair of converse today and I have a black sports hoody I wear to the gym.

Can y'all recommend some out fits that will look goodd on me? I want to be ff, but look attractive to everyone

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[saio]

dickies street for winter jacket and pants alfani for summer outer shirt

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&b...es+pants&btnG=


http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&b...w=1024&bih=673

[Crescent]

Wear a couple black leather pieces like a jacket and a nice belt with a unique buckle design. Clear skin is a must. Oh and an earring/s (personally I think earring/s on a guy is soo hot). Keep your colour scheme dark as in black, dark shades of red, blue etc unless you wanna look like Tidus..which is fine..*cough* I go on and on about how hot Sephiroth and Vincent are but its their personalities, their stoic attitude and calm demeanour that Im drooling over. Looks come after. All in all dont rely too much on your appearance, so pathetic. Everything goes south eventually.

[IcyJJ]

Supplies:
1 Green Sweater Vest
1 Pair of Khaki Shorts

Put on sweater vest and cut off lower half, right about your lowest rib bone. Put on khaki shorts and cut off about 5-6 inches above the knee. There you go, you'll be an FF ninja in no time.

[do re mi ti la]

thanks for all the advice guys

yeah dude i saw the dickeis stuff, but they look like regular clothes i guess, but i like the jacket thanks!

lol ff ninja!

hey omgawd, i had my ears pierced with silver hoops - everyone liked it but they bothered me and i took em out and the holes grew back (i kinda felt like xirces from 300 )

also i been trying to be more like vincent, i hate myself i am very meek and bad

like i have 0 confidnece, and i have suffer from PTSD and bipolar so i go crazy when bad things happen

how can i be cool and calm like vincent?
should i talk slow and in a deep voice like him?

and when i talk online in forums and chat rooms, how can i sound stoic and cool?

should i put periods at the end of my sentances and talk in short bursts?

thanks

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also when i talk to people online and in real life how can i make sure they know i am cool and stoic?

edit: also looking at places like pacsun and urban outfitters but they look all posery

i want to dress dark to show the darkness of my soul and stuff

[Pete]

you get one of those sandwich board types of signs that people wear when they advertise. Then you take that to a printer and have them print a final fantasy game cover onto said sandwich board. if you want to look modern wear 13, if you want to look old school wear 6. now you will definitely look final fantasy.


sometimes I'm so good I even amaze myself

[do re mi ti la]

no dude i mean like the FF lfiestyle

like dressing like most FF fans

like usually in darker clothes that are unique, but stylish

[Crescent]

Well..I cant help you there, it should come naturally...Just be the best version of You. And for the love of Holy, quit hating on yourself.

[do re mi ti la]

Well..I cant help you there, it should come naturally...Just be the best version of You. And for the love of Holy, quit hating on yourself.

obviously being myself isnt working!!

my gf cheated on me this spring and i went crazy and got expelled from college and lost everything!!

and i know its because i am not stoic cuz i am very hyper in real life!!

im trying to chagne but its too hard im not strong enough

its best i die **** everythnign!! girls only like guys who are calm and cool, im like the opposuite of what girls wnat

[Halie]

Well, firstly, not all FF fans dress in black and they're not all "stoic" either... I'm a fan of Final Fantasy and I'm one most giddy people you could meet.

Secondly, girls don't all like the same type of guy. You seriously need to change your attitude towards things, stop generalising everything. I realise you were hurt by your ex-girlfriend, but not every other girl is the same. Nor do all girls only like dark and depressing guys who like to wear black all the time. Some girls do, no doubt, but not all. You really just need to be yourself and stop trying to change into something you're not because you think it's what women want. Wouldn't you rather have a girl who loves you because you're yourself and not some idealistic version of what you think women want? And don't say that being yourself isn't working, that attitude just makes it worse. You just need some patience. I'm going to be brutally honest and say that with the way you're acting right now, no girl is going to want to be with you. You need to work on yourself first because you're obviously not over your last relationship, you need to move on from that before you can even think about trying to impress other girls.

[do re mi ti la]

Well, firstly, not all FF fans dress in black and they're not all "stoic" either... I'm a fan of Final Fantasy and I'm one most giddy people you could meet.

Secondly, girls don't all like the same type of guy. You seriously need to change your attitude towards things, stop generalising everything. I realise you were hurt by your ex-girlfriend, but not every other girl is the same. Nor do all girls only like dark and depressing guys who like to wear black all the time. Some girls do, no doubt, but not all. You really just need to be yourself and stop trying to change into something you're not because you think it's what women want. Wouldn't you rather have a girl who loves you because you're yourself and not some idealistic version of what you think women want? And don't say that being yourself isn't working, that attitude just makes it worse. You just need some patience. I'm going to be brutally honest and say that with the way you're acting right now, no girl is going to want to be with you. You need to work on yourself first because you're obviously not over your last relationship, you need to move on from that before you can even think about trying to impress other girls.

i used to think this too!!

but i am a chick repellant! i have to face facts

when i am stable i am pretty cool, but i am still very hyper and girls dont like hyper guys

all girls i ask 1 on 1 say they like guys who are calm, and serious

[Crescent]

It is hard to be around someone who has alot of issues with their self worth. Believe in who you are. If you're always working to be someone you're not, you'll never be a happy person. Naturally people dont want to be around someone who is such a downer all the time.

[do re mi ti la]

It is hard to be around someone who has alot of issues with their self worth. Believe in who you are. If you're always working to be someone you're not, you'll never be a happy person. Naturally people dont want to be around someone who is such a downer all the time.

i wasnt a downer - i used to b aswesome

but if i was awesome then she wouldnt have cheated on me would she??

se what i mean?

i used to be a positive thinker no wi just want to die **** I WNT TO DIE

[Halie]

i wasnt a downer - i used to b aswesome

but if i was awesome then she wouldnt have cheated on me would she??

se what i mean?

i used to be a positive thinker no wi just want to die **** I WNT TO DIE

She didn't cheat on you because you weren't awesome enough, she cheated on you because she was a bitch. Don't blame yourself for that.

[Crescent]

She didn't cheat on you because you weren't awesome enough, she cheated on you because she was a bitch. Don't blame yourself for that.

^ Exactly that.

[do re mi ti la]

She didn't cheat on you because you weren't awesome enough, she cheated on you because she was a bitch. Don't blame yourself for that.

Thanks guys, I know yall trying to help me feel better.

But the fact is I was not good enough.

She was a Christian girl, so don't think she would cheat unless she had a good reason.

I thought I was cool though, I didn't smother he, she smothered me more it seemed. (I was usually busy with soccer anyways)

And I always did what she asked, and took good care, everyone said we looked great together and even my other female friends were dumbfounded why she cheated.

But I dont know why, I asked her she didnt reply, and her other friends just sayign same thing yall are saying, cuz she a bitch.

But i want to know the truth!

[Rowan]

Buy yourself a pair of pants, cut one of the legs in half. Create a sigil for yourself, this could be anything from an image to a fancy letter. Shave one side of your head and allow the other half to grow long and cover one side of your face. Wear a necklance with your sigil. Wear a white singlet with a green denim jacket. Always carry around a pack of toothpicks and chew on one of them.

That will give you recognizable character. but you shouldnt do that.

For the other stuff, Women are vast and complex in variety. That goes for looks and personality, more specifically personality. The same goes for males. You want to stand out so chicks will digg you? Well then my friend you will be attracting the wrong kind of girls and bringing forth the wrong kind of attention to yourself. Girls that are attracted to an image of sorts will not last for you. You want a girl that is attracted to you because of who you are, not what you are. What you want to be is a final fantasy character. I think you should go for nice girls that dont do drugs, look after themselves and are caring in nature. You could meet these kind of girls at libraries, playing sport, being out and about in general always gives you your best chances. Before you can actually have anyone appreciate you though, you need to appreciate yourself. You wont get anywhere by hiding behind some sort of final fantasy persona (itotallyjustsaidthat).

It sounds super cliche', but just be yourself man. Intellectual girls will see through the BS man.

[do re mi ti la]

Buy yourself a pair of pants, cut one of the legs in half. Create a sigil for yourself, this could be anything from an image to a fancy letter. Shave one side of your head and allow the other half to grow long and cover one side of your face. Wear a necklance with your sigil. Wear a white singlet with a green denim jacket. Always carry around a pack of toothpicks and chew on one of them.

That will give you recognizable character. but you shouldnt do that.

For the other stuff, Women are vast and complex in variety. That goes for looks and personality, more specifically personality. The same goes for males. You want to stand out so chicks will digg you? Well then my friend you will be attracting the wrong kind of girls and bringing forth the wrong kind of attention to yourself. Girls that are attracted to an image of sorts will not last for you. You want a girl that is attracted to you because of who you are, not what you are. What you want to be is a final fantasy character. I think you should go for nice girls that dont do drugs, look after themselves and are caring in nature. You could meet these kind of girls at libraries, playing sport, being out and about in general always gives you your best chances. Before you can actually have anyone appreciate you though, you need to appreciate yourself. You wont get anywhere by hiding behind some sort of final fantasy persona (itotallyjustsaidthat).

It sounds super cliche', but just be yourself man. Intellectual girls will see through the BS man.

cool thanks, yeah i thought i went through that shit last summer though , cuz last spring i also had a mental break down and i spent all summer jus tworking out and playing soccer to focus on my self

but again i go crazy

btw who is that girl in ur sig?

[Pete]

I'm gonna give you the best advice that probably anyone can give. And I'm totally serious.

Bitches. Be. Crazy.

That's it. I'm not even joking. Sometimes girls cheat because they feel suffocated. Sometimes they're just not able to say that they want out of the relationship because they're afraid of hurting you, so they do some dumb shit like cheat. Sometimes they're just scared that you'll be the last dude they're with, ever.

Religion has nothing to do with it. Those are just stereotypes. Sure some of them are well founded; like some Catholic school girls are ****ing crazy in bed, but then again, if they were good little Catholic girls, would they be engaging in glorious premarital sex?

You can be the most perfect boyfriend in the history of romance, and she might not be feeling it.

Then again, a lot of the time, when shit goes sour, a lot of it happens when you both stop being the people that you were originally attracted to. The trick is to just be yourself. Don't let yourself get too high or too low over just one girl. There will be plenty more. Trust me.

[Rowan]

would just like to re-instate that there are good genuine loyal girls out there bud.

not all bitches be crazy.

[Zargabaath]

Ill keep wearing jeans, but gonna get more black clothes, where should I go? Cuz tbh hot topic clothes scare me but maybe I can find cool stuff online?

I got a few black under shirts, and plan to buy a pair of converse today and I have a black sports hoody I wear to the gym.

no dude i mean like the FF lfiestyle

like dressing like most FF fans

like usually in darker clothes that are unique, but stylish

What in the hell type of fans are you talking about? Dark clothes. "All Black Everything"....

Proclaiming it - Emo.

To be frank you are wrong, Hot Topic is what you are wanting.

The FF fans I know don't dress in black. Sure black shirts. Black pants. But majority black wardrobe. No. Are there fans who do have that - probably. But lets not generalize.

its best i die **** everythnign!! girls only like guys who are calm and cool, im like the opposuite of what girls wnat

Yep, emo.

my gf cheated on me this spring and i went crazy and got expelled from college and lost everything!!

I can understand why she would.







And for those who think I was rude, here is me giving two sh!ts about what you think.

[Unknown Entity]

There's no FF Style lol. Sorry dude, but it's true. Just dress how you want to dress. If you want people to know you love Final Fantasy, then invest in some merchandise. If you make up some kind of FF Style, you'll just end up cosplaying and look a little silly in day to day life.

And hey, you just met the wrong girl. Your ex was a bitch for cheating on you, and no one deserves that. Don't let one girl ruin your perception of other women. Also, some women like hyper guys. So be hyper, and let a girl fall in love with who you really are. You're still young, and it's not the end of the world. So get back on yo' feet, forget that horrible woman, and enjoy life.