Quote Originally Posted by Halie View Post
Well, firstly, not all FF fans dress in black and they're not all "stoic" either... I'm a fan of Final Fantasy and I'm one most giddy people you could meet.

Secondly, girls don't all like the same type of guy. You seriously need to change your attitude towards things, stop generalising everything. I realise you were hurt by your ex-girlfriend, but not every other girl is the same. Nor do all girls only like dark and depressing guys who like to wear black all the time. Some girls do, no doubt, but not all. You really just need to be yourself and stop trying to change into something you're not because you think it's what women want. Wouldn't you rather have a girl who loves you because you're yourself and not some idealistic version of what you think women want? And don't say that being yourself isn't working, that attitude just makes it worse. You just need some patience. I'm going to be brutally honest and say that with the way you're acting right now, no girl is going to want to be with you. You need to work on yourself first because you're obviously not over your last relationship, you need to move on from that before you can even think about trying to impress other girls.
i used to think this too!!

but i am a chick repellant! i have to face facts

when i am stable i am pretty cool, but i am still very hyper and girls dont like hyper guys

all girls i ask 1 on 1 say they like guys who are calm, and serious