Advice?

**little.miss.VIOLENT** · 03-09-2009, 11:59 PM

okay so at lunch today, me and my friends were playing truth or dare. my friend duncan chose dare, and nobody could think of anything good so im like, "oh, bite me". i was kidding, but he's like, "okay, turn around" and he gave me this little love-bite on my neck. next was my turn and i chose dare and he said "kiss me". now i dont know what to do! ive been kissed before, just not by a guy. its totally different. and i thought he liked my friend amy. he just dumped his ex, and i thought he and amy were together so thats what i said, he was with amy. and he was like "no im not, im not dating anybody". i couldnt do it, though because ive never kissed a guy. but now i dont know what to do! help?

**Unknown Entity** · 03-10-2009, 10:59 AM

Ooer... Firstly, Truth or Dare is a very good game, but when it's with friends and you start daring eachother to kiss and touch and stuff... things get awlfully complicated.

Secondly, I think you did the right thing by not going ahead with it - especially if it was going to be your first kiss with a guy. Meh, not even that matters, but the point is when you make a game like that, things get screwed up.

What I would do? Play it cool for a few days - certainly no more Truth or Dare unless it's going to stay "clean" lol. Don't give this guy the wrong idea about things, and niether should he. Keep your distance, but if you are good friends, then I surgest you both talk.

Do you have feelings for him?

**RamesesII** · 03-10-2009, 02:08 PM

Go for it girly first in best dressed i say lol no im kidding what UE said talk to your friend first.

Govinda · 03-12-2009, 03:16 PM

Molotovs. Easiest way out.

**Angantyr** · 03-13-2009, 08:37 PM

Do it, you would if you were drunk.

**Fate** · 03-13-2009, 08:58 PM

Haha! I think it's a sign, take it!^^

**Furore** · 03-13-2009, 09:02 PM

Do whatever you're comfortable with really.
If you feel a desire to kiss him, go ahead. If you don't, don't.

If you feel you have to make a decision, maybe that's a part of you thinking it isn't for you which is perfectly fine for some.

**Rocky** · 03-14-2009, 12:10 AM

Ask him if he wants to take a trip to the poundtown downtown. If he gives you a confused look, punch him in the eye and yell "That's amore!!" and run away. Quickly. On the other hand, if he seems interested, let it play out and see where it leads the two of you.

**Rufus shinra** · 03-14-2009, 05:59 AM

Get stuck in!!!

You've got to start somewhere

**Unknown Entity** · 03-14-2009, 06:19 AM

OMG! I don't think I've ever seen so much bad advice on a thread! 0_0

Seriously, only go for it if you are comfortable. If you're not, then there is probably a good reason why - always trust your first instints. Get to know the guy properly first - spend a bit more time around him, just DON'T go for anything just yet ok?

**Chez Daja** · 03-14-2009, 12:57 PM

Burp really loudly in his face. He'll never try kissing you again. Oh the joy of the burp.

**Fate** · 03-14-2009, 06:27 PM

Originally Posted by Chez Daja

Burp really loudly in his face. He'll never try kissing you again. Oh the joy of the burp.

Haha! lol! Chez Daja... Random as ever! Too bad you can't give yourself a warning, huh? Wait, can you??

Anyway, I think the real question is, "Do you even like him? If you do, go for it! If you don't, don't!"

**Yesha** · 03-15-2009, 01:22 AM

Do what your heart and mind says.. :-)

It's just a truth and dare game.. just a game.. don't take it seriousLy..

**little.miss.VIOLENT** · 03-15-2009, 04:52 AM

okay hi um i talked to him and some of my other friends about it, and i told them i was scared. my friend ricky, who i've had a major crush on since i met him, decided i was scared coz i didnt want duncan to be my first kiss, so HE KISSED ME!! now i REALLY dont know what to do, he's always saying how he doesnt like me, so then why the hell did he kiss me? i wanna talk to him about it, but i dont know what to say.

**RamesesII** · 03-15-2009, 06:00 AM

Usually when i guy or girl likes someone ie a crush etc they usually like to tease them or give them a hard time etc so really he does like you so go for him that way your not upsetting your friend if she has something for the other guy

**Lunasa** · 03-15-2009, 07:46 AM

Well, I'd like to go out and say "OMFG! HE LIKES YOU!" right away. I mean, he KISSED you, but it's really up to you to determine how "passionate" the kiss was. Though, I don't have much guy experience myself. The first guy who kissed me a complete idiot, but it still meant a lot to me, merely because of the milestone(I mistook this at first for having feelings for him). To him, it was a "friendly greeting". Figure out your feelings first. I'm not saying don't talk to him- merely feel your way in. Start up a bit of mindless chatter. If you feel it, you feel it. If you don't, you don't.

**Bleachfangirl** · 03-15-2009, 04:42 PM

You've got yourself some funny friends there. I know I'd be angry at each one for their reckless actions. Since they're being annoying, punch them both or something.

If that doesn't work too well, ask the second boy why he kissed you, and the first one why he came up with the dare. See what they say, the go from there. Don't be scared about it. Just bring a water balloon with you in case they try something else.

**Fate** · 03-15-2009, 08:19 PM

Originally Posted by Bleachfangirl

You've got yourself some funny friends there. I know I'd be angry at each one for their reckless actions. Since they're being annoying, punch them both or something.

If that doesn't work too well, ask the second boy why he kissed you, and the first one why he came up with the dare. See what they say, the go from there. Don't be scared about it. Just bring a water balloon with you in case they try something else.

Hey! Funny as in queer isn't it?

Anyway, I think he was TOTALLY being obvious! Come on, he kissed you! That means he likes you! If you like him, tell him that? If you don't, slap him and tell him to leave you alone!!^^

**Pete** · 03-15-2009, 08:43 PM

Bleachie's advice is pretty much in line with what I'd say. If the guys are toying with you and just kissing you just because, then they're really not being good friends at all. They're actually playing with your emotions and that's messed.

BUT, being that you're 15, I can totally understand that everything and any concern you have should be taken with a grain of salt. If you like the kid, tell him straight up. As for your friend who kissed you, I'd think it'd be safe to say that he likes you. Just talk to him in private about it, in person. Let him know how you feel and just go from there. Better to just put it out there than to wonder about it

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