the thing is my daughters 9 weeks and shes my 1st child... problem is i think im failing as a mother... I have an amazing boyfriend whos 5 yrs older than me and i love him to bits... I have lack of seflf confidence as i find myself unattractive to my bf but he keeps saying 'Lisa your not ugly' but i just think i am... My baby looks alot like myself and my bf which is great as people will then know that shes my baby girl. I love her to bits but I get really upset when I dunno whats wrong with her... I got alot of support from my bf and my mom and mom in law etc... but I just wanna learn how to do it myself...