Quote Originally Posted by che
It also makes us think of them as objects. Something to be tossed about. Like a beach ball. And not an individual person.
yes, this i think sums up what i was trying to say. i want characters in a story, not **** dolls. although, i guess some people just want **** dolls, and not that there is anything wrong with that, but it is kinda pitiable.

also
Quote Originally Posted by che
Not everyone is sexy like you, Rowan. There are "normal" people out there.
everyone is normal, even super hot models and the like. my wife is the hottest woman i've got to be around and even she farts and has puffy eyes in the morning.