I don't think you are a bad person for asking, Rowan. And I don't think I can quite convey all the reasons that I think, and reason that others may have on why objectifying and sexualizing characters makes it a bad thing. On the real:
Some people think objectifying a gender is a bad thing. Why are all the characters "perfect" according to society? Best bodies ever, perfect hairlines, all that. Not everyone is sexy like you, Rowan. There are "normal" people out there. By making Lightning (and Tifa, Lulu, Selphie, Rikku, etc) "perfect", it makes people feel inadequate. It also makes us think of them as objects. Something to be tossed about. Like a beach ball. And not an individual person.
Sure, we all love to look at attractive people. But it's just kinda gross when every. single. ****ing. character. ever. is just perfect or ridiculously over-perfect. Like Tifa/Lulu's boobs. Rikku's body and practically nonexistant outfits. That's just my opinion. They just seem so fake and forced. It lacks depth. I'm talking about characters. They almost literally are objects, so what's wrong with objectifying them?
Some psychologists, among other professionals, have seen underlying negative effects come from the fact that a very serious small percentage of people look like a barbie. Look at South Korea. Plastic surgery there is huge, and practically all K-pop stars who get (and there are a majority, I believe) work done, turn out looking very similar. That's apparently the ideal woman. The problem is...they aren't themselves, they are something else now, and maybe their self-esteem didn't get raised like they thought. Suddenly a whole new psychological problem happens, even though they are now what society deems beautiful.
Let's say I have a daughter. Who knows what she's going to look like, or what kind of personality she's going to have? I would cry myself to sleep if my daughter felt inadequate and insecure because she didn't have Lulu's ridiculous boobs, or w/e.
Yada yada yada. I've only touched base, maybe. Google stuff.
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