Gay the new "N" word?

[Unknown Entity]

Can't fully reply to your whole post as I'm a little pushed for time, but this stood out.

First: "Gayness" definitely reflects more femininity, if only for the fact that, to males, "gayness" means liking ****, just like a woman. Otherwise, "gayness" would just mean "stupidity", as "gay" would mean "stupid", etc.

In the content of his post, that's how I saw it as he was referring to a gay person/being gay/someone's gayness.

If it's used out of that context to use to say "stupidity" in the same way you'd use "gay", then more love to you. I should have been more clear on the context, but whatever.

Translation: It's not as acceptable at the all-girls school that you went to.

Well, it was actually worse at another girls school I had a friend at, and the headteacher was an open lesbian. You'd think that school would have a higher tolerance considering, but no. If you were a discovered lesbian there, you'd go to the bottom of the food chain, as it were.

Try to think of how many television shows, movies, ads, or commercials you've seen that include two females either in a sexual act or insinuating that they're about to start one. Now try to think of the same scenes with males.

While most females may be just as impartial to male homosexuality as they are to female homosexuality, males are much different. While displays of female homosexuality (and, thus, female homosexuality itself) are encouraged by males, displays of male homosexuality (and, thus, male homosexuality itself) are highly discouraged, sometimes to extremes.

When two women make out, do something sexual, or insinuate it, isn't it usually in an objectifying or demeaning manner? It's always a show for the males who might be watching, and rarely anything else besides.

Only film I can suggest which for the audience was different to watch was Black Swan, but even in that, the main chracter had her male boss being a douchebag

SPOILER!!:

by suggesting that she should masterbate to loosen up, or something, because she didn't want to sleep with him.

So if it's not objectifying and demeaning to us, in the film it probably is. Probably also means more guys went to see the film just for the touching and lesbian scenes, because there was a lot of that.

Also, for reference, when I went to see that film with my friend, there were a group of girls sitting next to us, who were actually, genuinely disgusted at all of the lesbian stuff. They were lucky me and my friend were beyond their levels.

While it's "acceptable" in movies, doesn't mean it's as acceptable in real life.

Also, imo, if two gay guys want to hold hands and make out in public, by all means... go ahead. It doesn't bother me. How can people's right to display affection be denied because a bunch of anal (no pun intended) assholes "don't get off at that type of thing". And that's all it's about; what you can and can't get off to.

and I still think the word "retard" is a much more demeaning and worse word to use than "gay".

I completely agree.

[Angel of Iniquity]

Also, imo, if two gay guys want to hold hands and make out in public, by all means... go ahead.

Now, how much negative attention would that portray comparative to two females?

Where I am from, it is only acceptable when it is the "Gay Parade" which I am pretty sure it is named.

Even still, everybody, and I mean everybody either stays inside, purposely goes to harass them, or goes for free stuff.

I just think gay males have a harder time in comparitive to gay females, though from everybody's opinions, it is widely due to location.

[Unknown Entity]

Now, how much negative attention would that portray comparative to two females?

Where I am from, it is only acceptable when it is the "Gay Parade" which I am pretty sure it is named.

Even still, everybody, and I mean everybody either stays inside, purposely goes to harass them, or goes for free stuff.

I just think gay males have a harder time in comparitive to gay females, though from everybody's opinions, it is widely due to location.

Well, why should it get negative attention in the first place? Because it's not "hot"? Personal preferences aside, is it really that big of a deal if two gay guys want to hold hands or kiss in public?

I'm not saying for one second it won't get negative attention. I just fail to understand why lesbians can, and gay guys can't without porn preferences being taken into mind.

I'm guessing if it was two ugly chicks making out, that wouldn't be as acceptable, would it? People would be "disgusted". So why is it acceptable for two perfectly formed females to kiss in public, and no one else but straight couples?

[Angel of Iniquity]

Well, why should it get negative attention in the first place? Because it's not "hot"? Personal preferences aside, is it really that big of a deal if two gay guys want to hold hands or kiss in public?

I'm not saying for one second it won't get negative attention. I just fail to understand why lesbians can, and gay guys can't without porn preferences being taken into mind.

I'm guessing if it was two ugly chicks making out, that wouldn't be as acceptable, would it? People would be "disgusted". So why is it acceptable for two perfectly formed females to kiss in public, and no one else but straight couples?

This might sound offensive but it isn't naturally correct. Penis>Vagina. not Penis>Penis.
The part on females is fetish, or for the most part.

Now, if two unattractive females made out, it would be more women saying something than men where I am from. The men would just mind their business and the women would say something. Actually, if two men made out, both genders would say something unless they are homosexual as well.

[Unknown Entity]

This might sound offensive but it isn't naturally correct. Penis>Vagina. not Penis>Penis.

Well... a penis can't go into another penis.

Probably NSFW:

You could argue that a penis wasn't meant to penetrate an anus, yet the fact sexual pleasure can still arise from it from both parties says differently. The fact that it still fits too.

Hey, and plus: don't guys ask for anal with women? Why is it okay with women, but not with men?
Best excuse ever if you're a female not wanting to go there.

The part on females is fetish, or for the most part.

...and penises can't be a fetish?

Now, if two unattractive females made out, it would be more women saying something than men where I am from. The men would just mind their business and the women would say something. Actually, if two men made out, both genders would say something unless they are homosexual as well.

Oh. But then men would definitely notice if it was two "smokin' hot babes" making out, right? They just won't bother with the ugly chicks, and mind their own business... huh. Well, here's an idea: mind your own goddamn business when two gay guys make out. Simple. And while you're at it, quit staring at the good looking women making out too.

EDIT: I've lost count of how many topics I've killed.