Uncle/Aunt Vs. Proper Name. A debate

[VidenTheColdOne]

Thank you for the insight all of you. Please continue.

I wanted to post without adding biased facts, but now i would like to see if any opinions change with this new information.

I began calling him by his proper name, because i don't know him at all, let alone as my father's brother. He began to insist i call him "Uncle" but i just cannot. You say if i have respect for him then it should be no problem. Well i have to say that, unfortunately i do not have much respect for the man. He can be very rude, and obnoxious. He is also extremely racist (not that i'm trying to be mean, but these are just examples. He says things lie "Taco" "Nagger"), which i find appalling beyond anything. I have a very open mind, and he seems to close his to any new ideas. And this isn't just once or twice, he does it all the time. Also, every other word out of his mouth seems to be the "f" word. He does not act like a respectful man, therefore i refuse to give him my respect. Just because you are old, or even blood related doesn't mean it's a "get out of jail free" card. Earn it. That's all i'm saying.

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Thank you for the insight all of you. Please continue.

I wanted to post without adding biased facts, but now i would like to see if any opinions change with this new information.

I began calling him by his proper name, because i don't know him at all, let alone as my father's brother. He began to insist i call him "Uncle" but i just cannot. You say if i have respect for him then it should be no problem. Well i have to say that, unfortunately i do not have much respect for the man. He can be very rude, and obnoxious. He is also extremely racist (not that i'm trying to be mean, but these are just examples. He says things lie "Taco" "Nagger"), which i find appalling beyond anything. I have a very open mind, and he seems to close his to any new ideas. And this isn't just once or twice, he does it all the time. Also, every other word out of his mouth seems to be the "f" word. He does not act like a respectful man, therefore i refuse to give him my respect. Just because you are old, or even blood related doesn't mean it's a "get out of jail free" card. Earn it. That's all i'm saying.

How are you supposed to ask us something like this without giving us all the facts? Opinions are biased, and that's what you're asking for. The fact that you were asking our opinions without giving us all the facts seems weird to me, because you're basically asking us to give opinions on two totally different things now. Should have just asked this one first imo. <3

And now my previous post was a waste of time because I'm obviously going to say that you can't respect a man who doesn't respect stuff himself.