Looks or Personality?

[nix]

Here's the psychological viewpoint. When anybody is first attracted to somebody, it's a physical attraction. The two people don't usually know each other emotionally, so they're working off of physical attraction to get the relationship off the ground. However, as their relationship grows, and they get to know each other, the two become emotionally attracted, and that's where relationships become serious. My answer is that attraction starts out physical, and grows to a point where physical attraction and emotional attraction balance each other out and work as equals.

I disagree to an extent, its not the only way to bed someone. Heck im a decent looker when i scrub up but ive scored women way out of my league due to my ability to drench people with laughter. And i know it wasn't down to my looks at these times, as they didnt even bat me a look up until i talked to them and soon after had them gut wrenching

I myself go for personality over looks, now in saying that i dont mean that someone with a face like a bag of hammers with an award winning personality will win me over. So many other things come into play before i get a "crush", sense of humor is a big part. Also weak minded people is a big turn off for me, like people who burst into tears for stupid reasons.

What im trying to say is that the road to true love is more complex than just the two categories mentioned

[nra4]

i go for ther looks so that u can get them b4 sum1 else does and u dont need to find out more about them

[Clint]

Heck im a decent looker when i scrub up but ive scored women way out of my league due to my ability to drench people with laughter. And i know it wasn't down to my looks at these times, as they didnt even bat me a look up until i talked to them and soon after had them gut wrenching

What im trying to say is that the road to true love is more complex than just the two categories mentioned

Making somebody laugh builds an emotional connection between the two people. You said that they were out of your league, but you somehow still managed to make them fall for you. So by telling me this, you unconsciously put yourself into one of my two mentioned narrow categories, hence further proving my point that there are only two categories of attraction.

[nix]

Making somebody laugh builds an emotional connection between the two people. You said that they were out of your league, but you somehow still managed to make them fall for you. So by telling me this, you unconsciously put yourself into one of my two mentioned narrow categories, hence further proving my point that there are only two categories of attraction.

You said the first attraction is always physical, i was disagreeing with that statement. In my case it was my persona that did the leg work

[Clint]

You said the first attraction is always physical, i was disagreeing with that statement. In my case it was my persona that did the leg work

Women find humor attractive. Maybe I didn't put this clearly enough. If you're funny, you'll become more attractive to the woman, so technically, it still is a physical attraction first, because the only emotional side that they know of you is humor. So they get a slight emotional attraction, and that slight attraction makes the physical attraction greater. Plus, I'm pretty sure that those women weren't out of your league, because if you're able to score them, then how could they possibly be out of your league? Saying that somebody that you hooked up with is out of your league is kind of a contradictory thing to say.