False. What I am going to say is that I really don't believe that women that are in a relationship have to be hanging out in a one on one situation with another man. To me, that just seems like the woman is asking for trouble. I think the only way I could ever be okay with that is if the guy friend was best friends with my girlfriend over a long timeframe. If she has been good friends with the guy much longer then when I have first met my girlfriend, then yeah, I don't see a big problem with that, as long as I don't think the guy is a douche or anything. If she is hanging out with some guy that I have never heard of all by herself and won't answer my phone calls, then red flags will be going off in my mind.Originally Posted by OceanEyes28
In the same token, If I'm in a relationship I'm not going to spend time with other girls one-on-one. I don't want to send my girlfriend a bad message and cause drama. That just seems silly to me, and I wouldn't want to be put in that position either. Sure, I have a few really good female friends that I could hang out with by myself if I ever needed to get another perspective on things, but I wouldn't go leave my girlfriend and talk to them by myself if my gf doesn't care for them. I think some mutual respect goes a long way, and how rinaoa is telling it, I don't think that there is any in what she has going for her at this point.
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