Looks or Personality?

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Here's the psychological viewpoint. When anybody is first attracted to somebody, it's a physical attraction. The two people don't usually know each other emotionally, so they're working off of physical attraction to get the relationship off the ground. However, as their relationship grows, and they get to know each other, the two become emotionally attracted, and that's where relationships become serious. My answer is that attraction starts out physical, and grows to a point where physical attraction and emotional attraction balance each other out and work as equals.

I disagree to an extent, its not the only way to bed someone. Heck im a decent looker when i scrub up but ive scored women way out of my league due to my ability to drench people with laughter. And i know it wasn't down to my looks at these times, as they didnt even bat me a look up until i talked to them and soon after had them gut wrenching

I myself go for personality over looks, now in saying that i dont mean that someone with a face like a bag of hammers with an award winning personality will win me over. So many other things come into play before i get a "crush", sense of humor is a big part. Also weak minded people is a big turn off for me, like people who burst into tears for stupid reasons.

What im trying to say is that the road to true love is more complex than just the two categories mentioned