When the joke of love becomes real

[OceanEyes28]

There have been lovely things said so far, but heeeey why not? I'll add my two cents.

See if she's interested in going out in a date setting. Ask her to a one-on-one dinner (or some other activity that allows the two of you an opportunity to talk. Coffee, lunch, etc.) Perhaps say that you would be curious to see how the two of you would do with that particular twist on the relationship. Be sure she knows that there is no pressure, but you still need to let her know that you're wanting to try a date and not just another friendly get together. And I wouldn't recommend coming right out with "I'm in love with you" because most people (of either sex) will shy away from that. It might be that they're afraid of hurting you somehow, or it might be a little guilt that they don't feel as strongly as you do just yet, or it could just be overwhelming to hear that out of nowhere.

Be gentle, be observant, but definitely test the waters.

[Rasler+]

Hey, good news, guys! (I don't really know if it's good or bad, but here I go anyway)

I walked her home today and told her everything before she went inside the house. Well, first she laughed about it and hit me pretty hard on the shoulder, but then I showed my uncharacteristic "plain and serious face" and her laughter faded. I think she knew it was serious and she asked me if I did mean it this time, and I explained.

Later on, she paused. And afterwards she smiled to me and said, "I'll think about it." And she went inside her house.

Whew. Glad that phase was over. Now all I have to worry about is her answer. Oh man. With the many guys crushing on her, I think I only have a snowball's chance in hell.