I've noticed that around this time of year alot of people tend to get married, so far in the last month, my cousin has gotten married, Matt's sister has gotten married (yesterday), 2 of my friends of have gotten married, and 1 is due to be wed in 1 week and another is renewing her vows in 2weeks.

So I've decided to do a thread oooooooooon.......... you guessed it weddings (fingers crossed this hasn't been done)

Bascially just sharing your experiances or ideas or views on wedding, such as

If your already married how did you celebrate your day?

To those of you who arnt married, do you want to be and if so what are your ideas for your wedding?

And whats your opinons on wedings, do you hate or love them? and say why you hate or love them.

For me, I'm a bit of a misery when it comes for weddings, I ALWAYS have something to complain about food, music etc
I just like to drink and drink and drink

I don't plan on ever getting married, from seeing so many other people doing it I've learnt that it is highly stressful and expensive, and I have enough stress in my life without adding to it and I also have no desire to spend the rest of my life in debt because of the wedding.
To me it's just sooo much hassle and money for just one day.
Example:
1) the dress/suit that you only where for one day
2) food which hardly ever gets eaten
3) a cake that just get sliced up
4) a dj and not many people get up and dance
5) flowers that wilt then die
6) planning and timing, trying to get the church and venue booked for the same day

and lall you get at the end is a piece of paper confiming the marriage, a gold band on your finger and a few nice photos, which will cost a fortune aswell also with the rings you can pick em up for £10 in the argos so whats the point in spending hundreds on em.

God I sound like a miserable bitter and old woman don't I lol
Anyway thats enough of my ranting.
I did use to want to get married when I was younger, before I realised how hard it would be, I had huge plans, but I will post that later, lets see yoru opinons 1st