Problem? Maybe.

**the_savior21** · 12-16-2012, 11:55 PM

So i recently had an experience that i would like to ask you guys about. The reason it concerns me is because my current girlfriend is a model and this happened to my best friend.

As the story goes his girlfriend Ria was super excited for this shoot. It was a 5000 dollar shoot and everything was going great. The only downside to the shoot was that it was an artistic nude shoot. There was not a lot of information given out to Ria and later on the day of the shoot she found out that it was going to be in a hotel room. To make a long story short for the sake that im exsausted and cant spell right now and iv covered the important parts of the story, Ria ended up taking photographs with a male model that she was required to have sex with for the shoot. Now its important to know before judgement is passed that the only information that was given to Ria was that it was an artistic nude shoot, she was getting paid 5000 dollars, and that she would be photographed with a male model. (both models faces are not included in any of the pictures.)

When he told me about this i didnt really know how to take it because for one thing 5000 dollars is a lot of money and Ria had no idea she was going to be having sex with the male model. On the other hand Ria had a man in her life. They are not in a relationship and were not at the time of the shoot either although they were commited to eachother. the only thing thay were missing was the title. She very will could have said no at the time of the shoot but that would cost have ended up costing upwards of a hundred dollars or more.

With all this information what is everyones take on this subject any other details you need i would be happy to provide. I am just curious to know what others from all around the world that share at least some of the same interests as i would think about a situation such as this. So let me know what you think even in a PM if you dont feel comfortable talking about things of this sort were everyone can see.

**Niall_farley** · 12-17-2012, 12:11 AM

It's all about how comfortable the guy in the relationship feels about this. If he sees it as all it is (a job) and thinks nothing more of it then great. Because that should be all the girl in his life should be thinking of it. An the word sex shouldn't really enter his head.

But most cases guys find it hard to be so lenient and think to deap into things such as what I she enjoys it?, what if she's havin an affair? Etc it all depends on self confidence really I think

**Tiffany** · 12-17-2012, 07:35 AM

What type of shoot was this for? I have a few friends who were models and if there was anything like that the photographers knew how to take the pictures to simulate them in illicit positions without them actually HAVING to do it. Unless it was for a porn magazine where its close ups I fail to see why she actually was required to have sex with the guy. :S I'm not judging her by any means, but I do feel she was taken advantage of.

As for anyone in a relationship with someone who's doing that it all has to be in your comfort level I suppose. If you know that stuff like this is happening and is a part of her career then you have to evaluate if you trust them enough to not cheat on you.

If you trust her and trust yourself (by "you" I'm generalizing) then it shouldn't be an issue at all.

Hopefully as well that's not all her photoshoots entail. Not every shoot is going to require a person to physically have sex.

**che** · 12-17-2012, 09:18 AM

She's cheating on you. Go back to your other thread and listen to my ****ing song.

**the_savior21** · 12-17-2012, 09:41 AM

Haha its not me its my friend my girlfriend doesn't do nude shoots

**che** · 12-17-2012, 10:21 AM

Punctuation is good.

I'm just wondering here. Why would you consult a Final Fantasy forum on these issues? Surely some Final Fantasy nerds have some real good advice on your relationship problems. Go call Dr. Drew on Loveline. Seriously. 1-800-LOVE-191. (1-800-568-3191)

**the_savior21** · 12-17-2012, 11:13 AM

Troll. Im part of a lot of forums and i ask peoples opinions. its hard to get an unbiased opinion irl. Its not about getting advice its about what seeing other people think.

**che** · 12-17-2012, 11:37 AM

If you wanna talk you can message me on skype. Ill pm you my info

edit: I may not know everything but i'm willing to chat and talk about things!

**Zargabaath** · 12-17-2012, 11:46 AM

So Ria ended up having sex with the male model? Someone pulled the ole rope a dope on her. That's f'ed up. Bunch of basterds.

As for your girl. It is good she doesn't do nude shoots. She won't be already nude for them to be like "Surprise"! And that you are in an actual relationship compared to your friend. Support her but tell her your feelings so she knows where you stand. Girls like that.

**Cerberuswaltz** · 12-17-2012, 12:03 PM

There's a lot to this story then people will let on- as I've seen it and from knowing others who do this... well, she's an adult. She made the decision to sleep/pose with the man. Even if she didn't fully agree she had plenty of will to say "no". The problem is that modeling is like the showf ilm business: it can be very tricky. People are used, taken advantage of and such, but if it's to fulfill a dream or be known, or achieve any other goal, they were willing to take that extra step.

Hard without the full story and her side, though.