Personality Pros/Cons.

[Rocky]

Let's hear them! What are some of your best/worst personality characteristics? What would be ones that set you apart from other people? And, what are your less then desirable ones that you have?

I think one of my strongest characteristics is that I'm a very caring person and I look out for my friends. It's almost kind of a fault for me haha because I'm one of those people that can't say "no" to others, even if I don't really like the person. One of the negative traits I have is that I'm pretty vengeful at times, and if I feel wronged I hold it with me for awhile. It's just something that didn't mean to happen, but because of family circumstances when I was little, it kinda became a big deal for me since I was wronged.

[Josh_R]

My pro's are I am a very kind, and caring person. I go out of my way for all of my friends.

A con is that I can sometimes be annoying. I notice it as do my buddies. I can be a pest at times haha.

[Victoria]

Pro: Flirty, Nice (when I want to be) Kind (when I want to be)
Cons: Flirty, Ice Queen, can be a bitch. Crass.

[loaf]

Pros: Better then Rocky's
Cons: Better then Rocky's

[Sinister]

PROS: I'm very intelligent. I'm very tolerant. I'm unique in appearance, hobby, opinion and in habits. I'm open-handed and will give anyone practically anything that I can so long as I percieve it doesn't affect me negatively. I make every attempt to be nice and I am polite and all around inoffensive. I always tell the truth. I can be a workaholic. I'm never forgetful.

CONS: I'm arrogant and pretentious, but I get away with it because I openly admit it without publically displaying it.(this for some odd reason seems to make me likeable to some? *shrugs* People are idiots) I'm terribly quiet and socially awkward, because of this my sense of humor is pretty hidden and warped. I'm, in degrees, somewhat sociopathic and not particularly interested in others' struggles or plights, but I compensate for appearance-sake so I'll do anything I can to help people. I lie any time it benefits me weighed against my chances of getting away with it. And I have various psychological...handicaps. I'm particularly single-minded at-times and at others very abstract and ADD. I'm potently lazy. Did I mention the weird sense of humor? Yeah, people never get it.

-Sin

[Unknown Entity]

I'm usually a very calm person, but happy. Sometimes the happiness really shows through, and you have a very bubbly and cheery Gemma, with a hint of randomness. I care a lot about other people, and a lot of the time I put others before myself. That's usually a bad thing, because then I kind of... get stressed and irritated in certain instances. I'm very good at spotting the danger signs of a person in a bad mood. I also have a very good judge of character. Those are are the two fulling working radars I have, I think.

Sometimes I'm so calm, I allow myself to think too much and then I end up upsetting myself over trifle things. I think I'm a little insecure about a few things, and I constantly worry about things that could go wrong (sometimes this is a good thing though). Where I care a lot about other people, I tend to forget about myself and end up depressed or angry. I'm easily hurt and I do take things to heart, but mainly when good intentions were coming from me at the time, and they get dismissed.

Also, when I'm in a really bad bad mood, I get really aggressive. =S

[Lily]

Pros: Generally just a happy person, optimistic. Find everything funny/easily amused. Laid back, easy going, I'm bar far the most mature person on the planet, but I know there's a time and a place

Cons: Folk tend to take my laid backness and see it as me being a doormat. I tend to just go with the flow, which is generally ok, but some folk try to take advantage! And this is gunna sound contradictory to the pros, but Ive got a right temper, I get over it almost as soon as it's blown up though... I can be really really bone idle when i want to be, im one of those that will be like 'il do it tomorrow' and it takes me about 3 ****ing weeks...

Though, tbf, I wouldn't even call my cons, cons, they may not be all that desirable to folk, or even myself sometimes, but it's what makes me, me, and I'm happy enough being a weirdo

Oh wait, one thing I really dislike, is how much I tend to over think things, not sure if this is falling into personality traits now.. i tend to worry myself stupid when I probably dont need to. Bah,. that really annoys me

[Jin]

Pros: Can criticize myself accurately and objectively.

Cons: None.

[che]

Pros: I have self awareness like a mofo. I'm hot. I'm charming. I'm smart. I have a nice penis. I think outside the box. I can step back and make an unbiased observation of reality because I can see both sides of an issue. I love sex.

Cons: I over analyze things at times. I'm not fluent in Spanish. I hate mayo. I'm an expensive drunk.

[Pete]

Pros: I'm incredibly loyal to my friends, and will go out of my way for them for even the dumbest things. I'm more or less an emotional rock, and people look to me for help and advice when shit gets bad. I'm cool under pressure. People tend to like me very easily.

Cons: I have absolutely no problem never talking to people again, if they had wronged me, even if they were a good friend. Sometimes I run my mouth a little too much when it's beneficial to not say a thing. Sometimes I think too much and can't see the forest for the trees. I can probably outdrink Brett, which also makes me an expensive drunk.

[che]

I can probably outdrink Brett.

Challenge accepted.

[Pete]

Whatre you doing this weekend?

[loaf]

Beating both of you in a smoking contest.

[che]

Whatre you doing this weekend?

Probably be here online tomorrow night if you wanna surprise toga/just drink our asses off. This is the best kind of bet because no matter what happens we're both gonna win.

[Alpha]

PROS: I always tell the truth.

CONS: I lie any time it benefits me weighed against my chances of getting away with it.

1. You always tell the truth.

2. Because of 1., you lie.

3. Because of 2., 1. is void.

4. You don't exist.

As for me...

PROS: I am always honest. Not necessarily completely honest, but I don't lie. I work hard. I like to think I am generous, and am willing to do favours almost all the time (which could be a con).

CON: I'm modest? Is this a con?

This sucks. Personality: I hate looking at myself in metaphorical mirrors. Don't make me do it again.

[Chez Daja]

Pro's:
I'm honest to a fault;however this could be a con too because I'm so honest that I'm blunt and I hurt peoples' feelings without meaning to.
I'm a really nice person most of the time and I'm overly generous.
I'm sensible and I know what I'm doing.
I'm naturally kind to most people, I love animals and I like to help people.

Cons:
If I don't like you, I'll probably never like you... and even if I do, it'll take me at least a year or two to believe otherwise. Luckily, it's hard for me to just dislike anybody for no reason, but there have been times and I haven't been able to help it.

I'm a heartbreaker. It's a commonly known fact. I just can't help it; when the spark is gone, it's gone and that's it. It's never coming back and I won't stick around waiting for it to come back. I'll be your friend, but nothing more once we're over.
I can be cold to ex's. I'm somewhat impatient and I can't accept it when people grieve over a lost relationship with me; once I'm over it, I want the other person to be over it. This is probably my worst fault, especially cleaning up various flings I had.

edit: I can likely outdrink and outsmoke everybody here and that isn't a joke. I'm built like a ****ing tank.

[Dodie16]

Pros: I'm nice. I'm dependable. I like to be helpful, and I'm typically a happy person. I love humor, and appreciate all kinds of it.

Cons: I find at times the things I do, and the things I want to do are completely different things. When that happens, I feel like I'm not being truthful to both myself and the people around me.

I sometimes get jealous, which is something about me that I am truly ashamed of. When I get this way, I think to myself "Why don't you just be happy for the person instead?" which does help get rid of the feeling, but I hate that it happens in the first place.

When I am provoked, I seldom stand up for myself. My first reaction when I get upset is to cry.

[ZantetsukeN]

Pros: I'm a very cheerful person. I'm caring, tolerant, patient and helpful. I do go out of my way to help someone in need. I'm nice to pretty much everyone.

Cons: I'm shy and nervous. I have very little self-confidence. Sometimes I think I'm easy to walk over. Also, people say I'm too nice.

[OceanEyes28]

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Pros: I'm a pretty reasonable person. I can be very sweet. I'm not particularly needy. I'm pretty ****in funny. I'm bright. I'm creative - I have an artistic bent that I'm fairly proud of. I'll try anything once and I believe I can overcome fears if I have them. I stand up for people I love. I feel very deeply and passionately. I'm motivated and do well with autonomy. I'm direct. I'm understanding. I'm thoughtful. I listen well.

Cons: It's rare, but I can have quite the adrenaline-fueled temper. I have a low tolerance for a certain kind of person, and I let it bother me way too much. I'm sometimes too afraid or, I don't know, selfish? to show or tell someone how much I care about them. My whole family is this way. Significant others have told all of us at one point or another, "It just seems like you don't love me," in so many words. More than once, people have gotten the wrong first impression of me. They'll think I'm a stuck-up bitch who would probably hate them or already does. I don't know why I'm intimidating/not approachable in this way. And I guess I can be self-absorbed. I say this because when people have accused me of being self-absorbed in particular, whether joking or not, I have this kneejerk reaction to get defensive and offended. So I probably am and I apparently really really wish I wasn't.


I can't outdrink anybody and I like it that way.

[Leon]

Pros: I can be very tolerant to anyone. You name it, stupid people, smart people, arrogant people, nice people, ignorant people (to a certain extent).
I'm nice most of the time, and just like Rocky, I'll hold it in me for a while whenever I'm wronged.
I always thought I'd be the Yin in a relationship, although I wouldn't mind being the Yang.
I'll defend anyone who is verbally abused, although I can count on my hand the number of times I've actually done that.

Cons: I'm pretty gullible.
My attention span is short, and my eyes tend to wander somewhere else in the middle of a long conversation.
It was easy for people to walk all over me when I was younger, and I still don't know if I got over that.
I can be jealous of someone who's screwed me over, especially when they're having a jolly good time while my world falls apart.
Whenever I talk to a girl in rl, I come off too strong and they distance themselves away from me.

[SuperSabin]

Pro: nicest guy you'll ever meet

Cons: have a hard time controlling some emotions which i explained in the you, you and you! thread.

[midgetbob]

This is like a sad excuse for online dating sites...

I definitely pick Chad. Lets bromance it up and be expensive drunks together.

Pro: I'm me.

Cons: I'm me :'(

[ultimatekupo]

I just learned quite a bit

pro's: I have a big heart, I am artistic, passionate, extremely loyal, I will do anything for the people I trust, I am a great listener, I am very understanding, and forgiving of everything even when it is difficult.

con's: My heart is too big, I can be emotionally distant, too passionate, I don't trust many people, lack of people skills,
-people I forgive usually aren't worth forgiving. Einstein said that the definition of insanity is someone who does the same thing over and over expecting different results- so call me insane.