Quote Originally Posted by draco View Post
Cheesevixen no disrepect or any thing but I don't think other people should run our life. Thats like saying you wana be his exact copy talk like him and acting like him even dreaming the same thing he dreams about becomming.

And again no disrespect or anything
What are you talking about?

Your no offense comment doesn't work here because you pretty much just told Cheesevixen she's as bad as some horrible man who beats people which is far from the truth. She had a rough relationship with various men involved in her [mothers'] life and having an issue with trust due to that is more than understandable.

I think you need to rethink your priorities because that was pretty condesending. I know you meant no offence, but I don't think you properly read her experiences.

Quote Originally Posted by Refieth
For example, I once bought this (really cute IMO) black t-shirt. One day, I woke up, (or rather, mum tipped me out of bed) and she told me to wear the black t-shirt... with a light blue polo shirt underneath it. Uuuugh! I look so stupid...
I'd hate that. You should talk to your mother and ask her when you can start deciding what tshirts you can wear... The only time I let my mother decide anything for me was when I was like... 12 and under... those times are long gone. Ask her for some measure of independence and make it clear that you're totally trustworthy and not exactly about to strip off in the middle of the road!