Hey everyone ! Had a question for all you chicks out there, and even you guys if you can relate.

So everyone should know by now I am married with two kids. I am not a jealous person, but both me and my husband are very sick sexual beings. We just fit that way. My only stipulations on him were that he cannot put his penis or tongue into anyone, and he cannot hang out with my friend Taira ALONE (we can all hang out together though). He is not the only one with sex rules. I myself have an internet problem so my stipulations were that I could not give out my information, I cannot webcam, and I cannot send naked pictures to anyone. Fair enough. It's not because we think we can't trust one another, but we understand that we both are EXTREMELY sexual. So in order to still have a comfortable relationship while respecting one another we created these rules.

Now...the reason he is not allowed to hang out with my friend Taira is because he has had oral sex with her, and I have witnessed her get very close to cheating on more than one occasion. Needless to say I can't trust her. ALSO, when me and my husband began dating all he wanted to talk about was her; even dedicated her a song. Why was he not with her you ask !?!?! She is married to his best friend. So needless to say he has bred me to be very insecure around her. So all I have asked of him is to not be alone with her. He could have said NO, but he said YES. If he had said NO to me I would have had to accept it, but that's not the point.

Anyways, this Saturday we all went out. I was kind of stuck on the couch with the baby, and he was off chatting her up. I didn't mind that because Eric was there. So I tended to baby and continued having a good time when they finally decided to come to where I could be in the convo LOL. All was fine until my husband and Taira disappear outside. I didn't care so much that they were together. 15 minutes pass and I wonder where he is. He eventually come back inside. I waited until we left to ask him what he was thinking. I don't break my rules...why did he break his? He claims he forgot and that was that.

The next morning we were watching the Salem witch trials. I told him my familys name is in the documentary because I was related to one of the family's who start it. He told me I was related to a bunch of whores. I told him he didn't know WTF he was talking about, and he starts going off about last night. Saying I take shit and blow it out of proportion and I am immature. I tried to point out that we made this agreement for a reason. He got even angrier and tried to storm off. I told him to **** himself an packed to go to my moms. He saw my bags and calmed down.

Would you have been a little angry if your SO snuck off with someone else?
I am not jealous just FYI. He get to touch women if he wants, go to strip joint, I often join in when he gawks at women, and I get turned on more so when he watches others being intimate no matter how hot the girl....because usually I am looking at her too. So I am not jealous in any way. This was the only girl I have a problem with. Just ONE. Is it too much to ask that they not be alone out of respect for me?