I have my disagreements here and there. I've never full on hated anybody. If people have their disagreements or whatever, it's no hard feelings, in my opinion. People have bad attitudes one day, I'm not going to put a stamped first impression. People have good days, too, and I think it's better judging the good days, anyways. Lord knows I've got enough issues and bad days, so who am I to judge a person on their worst?

I'm a bit worried for those "who don't give two shits" when it comes to personal ties, though. Not accepting positive or negative reinforcement is a scary thing. I used to have that montra for a little bit, and I found myself caring, even if I denied it. Having to deny something to yourself just brings things to a boil and then you END up taking things personally when you finally crack. It's one thing to ignore the pointless objective commodities, but when it comes to subjective criticism, analyze for a little bit, and if it suits your fancy, take it. If it doesn't, leave it, and move on. There is no reason to vengefully hate on someone for something THEY said. This goes for me, too. If you don't like it, ignore it. Simple as that, especially when you know you meant something a different way and someone says otherwise. You don't need to go around justifying yourself and have it be taken on deaf ears.