Kissing vs. Sex

[NikkiLinkle]

Which one is better in your mind?

I think kissing is better, to me, it's more sensual and personal. And if you do it right it may just lead to a sexual encounter. Sex for me, is way to over hyped. All I hear about is sex this and sex that. I don't think it's that spectacular. But that's just me. I guess kissing is more for romantics? I don't think there's anything wrong with sex, I'd just rather a good passionate kiss anyday.

[che]

Sex is different for different people, so is kissing I suppose. Though if you're doing it right, the passionate kissing should come with the passionate sex. And it's okay if you just wanna have the sex, with less kissing, or you just wanna have a passionate kiss.

You're like, comparing apples to oranges. Except the oranges and apples are sliced up together in a bowl. Then you ask which one you like more. Well, I like the apples, and I like the oranges, but I don't really like apples with oranges. Or something. Except Apples and Oranges don't really go together, but pretend they do, for the sake of my post.

[nix]

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both perhaps? they kinda go hand in hand. However from your opinion, im assuming you just havent had good sex..

[NikkiLinkle]

I get what you're saying. But I do prefer kissing to sex. As you said, it's different for everyone. So I don't expect people to agree with me.

[che]

Nah that's cool. Though I wouldn't rule out nix's logic, either. Sex itself can be far more passionate than kissing, if you're looking for extreme passion. Sometimes I just want some really good making out. Sometimes I want sex. Most of the time I want both. It really depends on my mood. I can't really vote on this as I want both, in general, equally.

I'd say if you're ever in town let's have some coffee, maybe some making out, maybe some sex. But you're Australian.

edit: ^ Don't take that as I'm trying to be passionate, because it completely goes against my points. I just wanted to make fun of the fact that you're Australian.

[nix]

Yeah Australians cant drink coffee Che, ffs!

[Yoko]

Both do go hand in hand, but I love sex (I go through phases where I hate it though, then I think, "What the **** was I thinking")

Being Bisexual though, both are very important to both sexes. I would know

[OceanEyes28]

Combine the two: Oral sex

DINGDINGDING



But yeah, I get what you're saying. If I have to choose between kissing someone I'm in love with versus having sex with someone who's attractive enough, but I'm not really emotionally involved with them... I'm gonna kiss my loved one. But sex with the person I love? Complete with passionate kissing, close embraces, and cuddle-time pillow talk afterwards (also orgasm)? Win. Good sex brings me closer to the person I love. Kissing him is great, but the sex brings us together and enhances the relationship.


.........and now I want to have sex.

[NikkiLinkle]

I don't want to have coffee or anything with you Che. What's wrong with Australian's?

[Clint]

I'm far past the point where I actually care about these kinds of things. I forget to kiss my wife, because I'm 81 and have the memory of an 81 year old. It's no big deal. As for sex, like I said, I'm 81. I have difficulties with blood circulation in that general region. I'm also not quite sure what sex is. I believe it's some form of a microbial, but I may be confusing sex with microbiology.

Women are not for kissing or having sex with. Women are for cooking my pants, and blaming the dog when I accidentally wet my food.

[Hobaginator]

First thought, what Oceaneyes said: gimme a blow J. However after thinking about it, I'll go with two girls kissing while I have sex with them.

[che]

First thought, what Oceaneyes said: gimme a blow J. However after thinking about it, I'll go with two girls kissing while I have sex with them.

You broke all the rules.

[Order]

I do enjoy when a girl makes out with my c*ck.

Agreed, both is best.

[RagnaToad]

What do you mean which one is 'better'. Better how? You're being so general and vague.

It's almost like asking whether you prefer eating or drinking.

They are two things that are enjoyable in a different way. Two different experiences (although one often includes the other).


EDIT: Woh. Actually posted something decent and sober.

[NikkiLinkle]

I'm sorry. I know I was being vague. But I guess it's up to you to decide. If you can't well that's ok. I think what Oceaneyes said is perfect.

And I prefer drinking to eating. As I prefer kissing to sex.

[RagnaToad]

I bet if you hadn't eaten for 2 days you'd prefer to eat.

[che]

Someone's logic in this thread is flawed. NOBODY KNOWS WHO IT IS THOUGH, NOT EVEN THEM!

[NikkiLinkle]

This isn't about logic. To me kissing is more meaningful, it is more romantic. Kissing is more intimate to me. You can kiss without having sex and you can have sex without kissing. Sex is more explicit and kissing is more innocenct in a way. It's a way of being close without giving to much away. Some people will do things for someone (buy flowers, cook dinner, even kiss) in order to have sex, not so much the case to have just a kiss.

I know that majority of people are fans of sex. And that's cool. But I am not and I don't think I should feel stupid about it. And I'd hope I wouldn't be made fun of because of it either. Because that's the feeling I'm getting. A nice I respect your opinion would be nice.

Also preference and necessity are different things. Food is necessary and I honestly don't think sex is necessary either. Sex is ultimately for reproducing and these days you don't even need to have sex to reproduce. BUT I understand that sex is a pleasure for people, I'm not dissing sex in anyway. Sex up all you want! But kissing still remains my preference.

[seanb]

Suppose they're both important.

But it seems some people have lost the appreciation and art of the kiss. There's more to it than just laying the gob on each other, every muscle in the body needs to be used when kissing, not just the lips doing the work.

[nix]

Yeah were saying they both kick ass, to even try to separate them through a preference is ****in stupid..

Kissing is good, sex is good.

If your not enjoying sex, you're doing something really wrong, or your partner/s is, i advise having more sex with other people.

Kissing is great, but if you were to do nothing but kissing constantly and have it lead into nothing else, you would grow very bored of it over a short time.

[NikkiLinkle]

If it's so stupid to separate them as a preference, then why have 12 people voted? It's because you can separate them!

But seriously I've said my bit so I'm just going to agree to disagree.

Ba-zinga!

[nix]

Kiss my ass then ya like it so much

[che]

I would just like to state for the record that I love everyone in this thread, and I would kiss and or have sex with you all depending on who you are.

[nix]

oh i know, been wiping your drool off my ass since March 01 you sick lil bastard..

[che]

That's not drool!

[Hobaginator]

This thread is now officially gay.

[nix]

Trust Che to gay everything up, the Gayinator!

[NikkiLinkle]

Hahaha good one

[RagnaToad]

This isn't about logic. To me kissing is more meaningful, it is more romantic. Kissing is more intimate to me.

Even if everyone agreed 100% about this, it still wouldn't really be an argument. You didn't ask which of the two was more romantic or valuable in a relationship or as an intimate sign of love.

You asked which one was 'better', which to me seemed a weird type of question. That is what I'm trying to say.

[nix]

intimate sign of love.

Nothing says love better than the piledriver, i dont care what kinda kiss you can do!