Quote Originally Posted by Alpha View Post
But I have no idea which one of those is the 'real me'. Because they all are.
This. Just because I am a bit more outgoing with some people than others doesn't mean I am 'truly' one way or the other. Clearly, judging from my actions, I am a bit of both. All of the masks we wear are a part of us because people aren't so two-dimensional that they only behave in one specific way. So if someone acts differently with me than with someone else, I don't think that they're two faced, I think that they have a lot of facets to their personality and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Unless you're talking about brown nosing? Brown nosing is kind of annoying and counter-productive, but as long as I'm not getting thrown under the bus I don't mind it.