If you're thinkin of bein' my baby it don't matter if you're black or white.

[ChloChloAriadne]

...Does it?






It definitely doesn't to me. I don't really... See ethnicities. Australia's super multicultural and it's not something that I notice. I've dated people of many different ethnicities, and it's not something that I've ever thought about that much.

[Fluffy]

Matters to me somewhat. I don't really find black or particularly young Asians girls very attractive. It's not definite, but most of the time, it's not happening. Adult Asians are okay, though.

But mostly black. Very low chance of that ever happening.

[Xanatos]

It doesn't matter whatsoever but in all honesty there aren't many black girls around here to begin with, so I can't say that I've been with any other than the white ones but skin color has never bothered me as long as I like the girl.

[Unknown Entity]

To me, it doesn't really matter much. I might have my preferences, but that doesn't mean they won't change with... time and/or experience? *shrug*

As long as I like the person, I don't think it matters. My ex was a Japanese guy - some of the people I know didn't like that. My mum is going out with a black guy, and I know not many people like it. If a couple with different ethnicities can be as happy as a couple with the same ethnic background, then hey - go for it.

You can't help who you fall for. It just happens.

[Midnight Panda]

to me it doesnt matter, because i know some pretty hot black people and i also know some pretty hot white people. i just think that as long as I like them, and they like me it doesnt matter.

[Jin]

Is the question here whether we care about the race of a sex partner or that of our future child? "Baby" could mean either.

[Govinda]

Is the question here whether we care about the race of a sex partner or that of our future child? "Baby" could mean either.

I want a mixed-race black baby. Those little guys are the cutest.

As for whom I find attractive, well, I've never seen a Pakistani and gone, 'Damn.' But you never know. Sinhalese are hot because they're the kindest people on Earth. Nigerians cna be good looking, but tend to come on far, far, FAR too strong if they're even vaguely interested in you.

[Josh_R]

I doesnt matter to me i've dated my fair share of black chicks...Some people dont like it but oh well F*ck them...

[Cheesevixen]

I would have to say it doesn't matter to me who dates who. Personally though I prefer dating skinny white guys....glasses preferred but not necessary. It's not just a race thing though. I also prefer my white guys to have brown hair and brown eye's. I'm just a picky biotch. I myself am 1/2 Spanish and 1/2 white. I tried dating another half breed like myself, but he looked more Spanish than I do. I didn't mind it, and we looked really good together.

[Pete]

It's all about preference and what is found attractive. Personally, I like athletic white girls, preferably brunettes or redheads. Do I find girls of other races attractive, not always, but some can be very attractive.

Now, if we're talking about having a kid, we're also talking about me marrying a girl, and so it would have to be my ideal girl, or as close to that as possible. So yeah, it would have to be a white girl.

Would I date outside of my race? Possibly, but obviously I would need to find her attractive and have some sort of connection. It's just easier for me with white girls.

[Che]

It's just easier for me with white girls.

That's because white girls are easy.

Don't matter to me. I've dated or at least hooked up with white girls, black girls, hispanic girls, asian girls, and this chick who was half hawaiian-half black. She was smokin!

[Clint]

Considering that white is right, it sure as hell does matter. White Christians should stick with white Christians so that the superior race can continue and grow as a full-blooded superior race, with no lesser blood in the mix. Everybody else, including white people who aren't Christian, can mingle between one another, considering that they're the lesser races to begin with, so it wouldn't matter much.

[loner-kid]

Ethnicity doesn't really bother me, sure there are some traits that i'm going to find more attractive than others that will be more dominant in some ethnicities, but i'm not the kind of person who's going to choose a girlfriend based purely on physical traits. Although then again i have no dating experience so in retrospect my comment is almost intirely useless

[OnOneRyder]

I for one am not attracted to, and never have been attracted to girls of my own race. Not to say I wouldn't date a white girl if I became interested in her, but I like being exposed to other cultures....so chances are it wouldn't be much more than a weekend fling. I can't see myself devoting much time to someone who's life has been so similar to mine...too boring.

[Walter Sobchak]

Does everyone else notice that the rich and powerful of all ethnic groups go after white women, from rappers to Kim Jung-il? By far, white women are the most attractive, with Hispanics and South Americans making do in a pinch and Asians serving as an added spice.

Even in the black community, the most cherished women are the lightest. Look at that Halle Berry character and the young singer who was drop kicked by her husband or something.

[OnOneRyder]

^ I think that's a fairly ignorant comment to make, the white women being the most attractive bit consider it's just opinion. Also most of the non-white well off people I know seem to stick to dating people of their own race. Hell even most of the asian guys I knew while in Japan had absolutely no interest in white women and my female friend there who is white and very attractive can attest to this, she couldn't find an asian guy interested in her to save her life. And the "black community"? Your stereotype seems to be based on what you've seen in movies or tv.

[Jin]

Tongue, this is cheek. Cheek, this is tongue.

[Walter Sobchak]

^ I think that's a fairly ignorant comment to make, the white women being the most attractive bit consider it's just opinion. Also most of the non-white well off people I know seem to stick to dating people of their own race. Hell even most of the asian guys I knew while in Japan had absolutely no interest in white women and my female friend there who is white and very attractive can attest to this, she couldn't find an asian guy interested in her to save her life. And the "black community"? Your stereotype seems to be based on what you've seen in movies or tv.

I thought I littered the post with enough references to clue people in, between North Korean dictators, pretending not to know Rihanna's name, and referring to two billion people as "spice". I guess not?

Is prose dead?

[Sean]

I don't really find myself attracted to girls of a different "race" than my own (white) very often, and if I do it's rarely been more than just a physical attraction, the personalities usually push me away.

Not to sound racist, or even that I claim to be racist, but I couldn't possibly date a black girl unless she met all the standards I set in a girl in the first place, which, not to sound rude or, again, racist, 99% of the time they don't. I find black girls, for the most part, to be incredibly rude and obnoxious. Sure there's been a few I've met that I could see myself dating.

It's not about the color of their skin, but their personalities, and, as much as people hate hearing it, people of specific races tend to all act in the same stereotype, and I don't find those stereotypes attractive.

But I'm not bothered if I see a white girl with a black guy, or a black chick with a white guy, etc etc. To each their own.


With Asians I generally find a massive cultural or language gap in my city, there aren't many legal Latin American girls around here, and Bosnian girls, albeit white, I never really found very dateable. again, due to the cultural and/or language gap. (St. Louis has the highest population of Bosnians in the world outside of Bosnia it's self)

[Muramasa89]

I'm naturally just not attracted to black or Asian people for some reason. If my baby was black or Asian it would bother me, because presumably my partner hadn't been telling me something. If someone down my line a black and/or Asian person entered it, and that gene sprung up again with me, I wouldn't mind (though it'd be hard to tell if it had sprung up.)

[GypsyElder]

Now that I think about it, I've never dated a black guy. There are some good looking ones, but for some reason I'm just not attracted to them, but I'm not going to say I would never date one, because ever time I say something like that I end up doing the opposite. I've dated mostly white guys, but to me it really doesn't matter what race you are. If you're bomb you're bomb period. I've been seeing a lot of cute asian guys lately though, which is kind of starnge

[Rain Lil]

Where I live, ethnicity is definitely not an issue. You see all colors of the rainbow, blacks, whites, Asians, Latinos, Indians, Islanders, etc. dating each other. There are three multiracial couples, including me & my boyfriend, in my Art class alone. You see a black guy and a white girl walking down the street holding hands like it's nothing. I see a Mexican girl with a white guy.

But don't get me wrong, there are those out there that are like, what the eff are those kids doing? It's mostly the older generation not used to the transition.

I personally find Filipino guys attractive. Thus why I've dated only two Asian dudes LOL. The first one was an asshole (LOL), but I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years, and he happens to be Cambodian. Now, the color of their skin doesn't bother either of our families. I'm Mexican and Native American, and he's Cambodian. I think our kids are just going to look Filipino lol.

Anyways, our families get along well. He doesn't speak Khmer, but can understand some of it. Sort of like me, I can understand little Spanish, but I cannot speak it. It's funny because when I go to their parties, they all speak Khmer, and I always have to ask him what they're saying. His family thinks I'm hella pretty and they all love me tho, so it's all good =] They do wonder why he doesn't want to date an Asian girl, but he has no interest in them. He says they look like little girls LOL.

As for my family, we speak no Spanish but understand it because my grandmother used to speak some Spanish to us. We all speak perfect English and only speak in English. Our family loves my boyfriend, even though he's Cambodian. When I first told them, they were like, Really? But not in a 'what the eff' way, but more like an interested way, like 'how did you find a Cambodian'? I know, they're pretty rare. xD

Anywho, where I'm from interracial couples aren't a big deal. Sacramento, CA is such a multiracial community that everyone is usually mixed with something.

[Dr_Flea]

ive never dated ouside my ethnic group but i would indeed yes!!

i doesn't matter to me what the colour of your sking is so long as the person is cool and down to earth and not soo up themselves they can smell there own shit!!

~Dr_Flea~

[Lady Rika]

Well I've been with girls and boys but it doesn't matter to me really, of course your gonna want an attractive person but isn't about love/caring about that person? Color is...its just a color as is race. It doesn't make a person, I see such beauty in everyone and it just doesn't matter to me.
My family wouldn't like me going out with anyone who was black but that's they're own fault for being dismal minded when it comes to things like that.

[Josh_R]

My family would also frown on me dating a black woman but what can I say there is something about black woman I love maybe it is the BGB(black girl booty) cant beat that shit buddy yeah..My current girlfriend is white but see has a BGB so I can deal with it...

[Sinister]

I had a crush on a black girl when I was eighteen. Nothing much came of it besides mutual flirting and long discussions. But she was very cute and I would date her without a second thought. I'm not sure how my family would react. My parents wouldn't care but the rest of my family would probably express disapprobation with knowing looks and whispered gossip. My grandmother would probably give me a 'talking to'.

But I'm beyond caring about any such things. Lesser details, all...

-Sin

[Rocky]

Haha, I remembered talking with my cousin and late grandfather a few years back. My cousin wanted to get a rise out grandpa, so he said he was dating this asian girl back home. My grandpa casually said "if she's not dutch, she's not much."

Even though he was kidding, I think my mom would prefer me to keep the heritage in my own race for some reason, but she's all old-fashioned and stuff. As for me, I've been attracted to all different kinds of women. It's not about what kind of skin color they have or what nationality they are a part of, it's more about what kind of person they are on the inside. Yeah it's really cheesy, but ultimately it's what love boils down to, for me at least.

[Tiffany]

I just don't find other ethnicities attractive. I dunno, just don't.

I don't have anything against anyone, or think badly of them either. Just not sexually attracted I guess. I had someone try and tell me that I was being racist, but I don't exactly see how that is possible. Does not being sexually attracted to someone of a difference ethnic background make one racist? If so, how?

[Priscilla]

I have no actual problem with dating people outside of my own ethnicity. I've only dated one man who wasn't white though and he was Asian. Other than that, I've never really dated anyone else from a different ethnic background. I just don't find them as physically attractive as people similar to me. That's just my preference though, I suppose.

I have no problem with it though. I really don't see how it's any different to two white people or two Asians dating. I mean.. At the end of the day we're all people.