I need advice

[Order]

Im goin to be very blunt.
Stop reading now if you cant handle it.





To him, you are the psycho ex who wont quit.
Every form of contact from you is pathetic and aggrivating. He may not have the will power to completely ignore you, but nothing but hate will come of you interacting with him.
Do whats right, do what you already know you should.
You dont deserve the relief of an accepted apology. Your relationship was terrible and your desparate attempts at prolonging the suffering have made you an enemy to him.

Burn the bridge.
Cut all ties.
Find somone you wont take for granted like you took him for granted.
Treat that new person better. Dont tell them about how you annihilated this relationship.
Stop being utterly selfish and irrational.


You will eventually learn this is all true and correct.
Follow this advice and you will feel better.
Ignore my advice and your shame and embarassment will continue.

[Yoko]

Im goin to be very blunt.
Stop reading now if you cant handle it.





To him, you are the psycho ex who wont quit.
Every form of contact from you is pathetic and aggrivating. He may not have the will power to completely ignore you, but nothing but hate will come of you interacting with him.
Do whats right, do what you already know you should.
You dont deserve the relief of an accepted apology. Your relationship was terrible and your desparate attempts at prolonging the suffering have made you an enemy to him.

Burn the bridge.
Cut all ties.
Find somone you wont take for granted like you took him for granted.
Treat that new person better. Dont tell them about how you annihilated this relationship.
Stop being utterly selfish and irrational.


You will eventually learn this is all true and correct.
Follow this advice and you will feel better.
Ignore my advice and your shame and embarassment will continue.

There are so many ways I could reply to this, so I will start with this: Thanks.

One of the things that I need to prove to myself more than anyone else is that I have changed. The old me would have said something already. The fact that I haven't already means that I've learned something. The ball is in his court. If he wants to say something, let him. I won't be the one to do it.

Everything else you said doesn't apply because that's already what has happened. Thanks for jumping to conclusions about me. That gets you reeeeeeeeeeally far in life.