I had a conversation with my dad not too long ago, and he wanted to make a point clear, that he doesn't think a male and a female can be best friends with out it turning it something more. I don't know. I don't have just one best friend, I have a handful of really good ones. The kind who you know you will be just as tight with if you don't talk to them for a year, and will always be there for you. Of those, I don't think I would ever hook up with any of the males.
I'm pretty sure everyone knows the difference between someone who is just a good friend, and someone who you are attracted to. I have had a best guy friend though, that started to like me. I think the only negative with that was that things started to get awkward.
But then again, isn't that how relationships start in the first place, good friendships?
I'm guessing his point was that maybe, even if you don't become attracted, maybe the other person will? I don't really know the answer.
So the question is, do you think it is possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex, without something happening. Whether it be relationship, hook up, or crush?
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