So I was requested to lay down my two cents here and I take that as troll-bait seven days a week.
I'm going to go ahead and disappoint you all immidiately,
I don't give a shit about your sexual orientation. I don't care if you prefer blondes, brunettes, hispanic, black, asian, boys or girls. Hell, I don't even care if you prefer dogs.

In modern American society, it is unacceptable to discriminate against or for a person based on their sexual preference within the confines of the law and moral standards (under 18 is too young for anyone over the age of 23, like wise those who are equally mentally immature or otherwise incapable of direct, informed consent are out of the question). I adhere to those standards pretty closely.

However, there is no moral or social standard which restricts my ability to voice my opinion on the issue outside of a workplace.
I don't like men who act like women.
I don't like women who act like men.
I don't like it when a gay person who I have never met or even had a conversation with approaches me directly and states that they are gay and I have to respect that.

I don't have to respect shit aside from the law and my superiors at work.
Most of all, I will respect any person much less when they begin telling me what I am required to respect.

Here are the facts on the issue and those who are on the fence or can't commit to a side might not have thought of it this way:

1. The Christian church is not required to respect your sexual orientation.
2. A church's rules and moral standards are shaped by it's congregation. It's a matter of a society deciding it's collective values and establishing moral guidelines to fit those values.
3. Nobody (in the US) has the right to tell a religous group who it will and will not marry. They are free to worship their God the way they choose within the confines of the law.
4. What is so great about being married under a Christian God who does not want you to be married?
5. What gives the gay community the right to force a specific church to marry them when there are many churches throughout the country that will do so willingly?
6. Why not join a church which is comprised of, or at least accepts homosexuality?

Simple as that.

As far as a church which does accept homosexuality as morally acceptable; good. Why not?
Religious freedom is one of the core beliefs which makes up American society.

You can be gay all you like. You can be gay and Christian if you want. There are plenty of Christians who do not follow the moral values of the bible exactly and there are plenty who even intentionally violate some of those values.
They are still Christian.

That's the point.
Gay and Christian are just ways of describing a person's behaviour and beliefs.
It's about an individual's opinion, compaired to a social group's opinion.
And I could not give a crap less than I do now.

Think what you want, it doesn't effect me.
Society can think what they want, it hasn't stopped me from doing what I do.

If you agree with popular opinion, great. If not, great.
Be a rebel without a cause or a sheep or whatever.

Your sexual orientation does not make one shred of difference until you force it to become a topic of controversy.

Bing, bang, boom,
Now you know what to think.

EDIT::
Now, hopefully, this thread will fizzle out and die. There is no controversy here.