Quote Originally Posted by R.Kyra
Stupidity is another thing that comes to mind. If by stupid you mean: not all there, you might actually be correct. By definition, one of it's meanings are 'Tending to make poor decisions or careless mistakes.' I made many many mistakes and made many many poor decisions. I did NOT have lack of intelligence during this time, which also falls under the definition of stupidity. I was fully aware of what was going on. The pain I was going through affected my mental state in a very bad way.
I meant it as in poor decision making and careless mistakes, I honestly don't think anyone is genuinely stupid as in "lack of intelligence" ... I just think some people don't sometimes know how to put their intelligence to use.

Like I said, and agree on with both R.Kyra and Heartless, it is a selfish act, it's just not intended to be selfish by the suicidal party. But then, you could say that the outsiders who call it suicidal, are saying so because they are pissed off that they have heaps to deal with afterwards, are annoyed that they now have a burden to bear with someone's death? Trying to be more psychological about it rather than just say "it's selfish/not selfish"