I've got to be honest with you gentleman. I'm 32/ married 3 years, and I enjoy playing, but whether you want to admit it to yourself or not, video games are an immature activity. I'm sorry to say it, but it's true.

If you're investing more than a few hours a week where you just have nothing better to do, then your wife is probably justified, and all of her friends that she tells about your video game habit think of you as a 10 year old boy.

What you have to do is find more adult-like activities, taking your wife to a dinner, or a play(opera), or finding a wine bar that she likes, or walsing around a farmers market or a zoo, or completing a home repair project, or renting a boat, or going to the springs, or something that is more real worldish than hanging around playing video games. Again, she thinks your 10 years old when you do this for more than a few hours a week, and SHE'S RIGHT!