^ Yeah, I read about that. Might just be that I am used to stereo types but, most rednecks don't seem very acceptive of anything different but, I don't live there so I don't have first hand experience.
Basically, when I think I have it bad ... I just have to realize some people probably have it worse O.O
Spit out your stride gum and chew another piece already... or I'll haunt you.
I really dislike redknecks. if your different, everything you do or say is wrong. But what they dont relize is when it comes to high school subjects its always the "weird kid" that knows more than they do, and then they want to copy off your tests and homework. No way!!!!Originally Posted by Howling Wind
The cake is a lie!!!!!
^ Because I have redneck friends. Well not friends, acquaintances. You assume a lot, don't you.
I don't want you in this thread if you are going to keep stirring up shit between members, thats not what its for. If you don't have anything good to say, move along.
I didn't put this in the debate forum so don't debate here. I'm surprised you didn't notice that =/ Odd.
Last edited by Howling Wind; 02-15-2011 at 04:32 PM.
Spit out your stride gum and chew another piece already... or I'll haunt you.
I'm not debating anything. I'm neither taking any sort of side, nor am I making any sort of accusation. I'm just commenting on the irony of where this discussion is heading. You're discussing intolerance towards people who are 'different,' so to speak, such as yourself, yet by doing so, you are showing intolerance towards those people by utilizing blatantly racial slurs.
You assume that these people hate you because you're bisexual. From experience, the one thing that pisses me off more than anything is when people try to tell me what I think, as if they think they know me better than I know myself. It's condescending, and quite frankly, humiliating.
Let me ask you something; has anybody actually shown intolerance towards you because of your sexual orientation?
Last edited by Clint; 02-15-2011 at 10:37 PM.
Yes, they have. Why do you think I was so nervous to post this thread? Seriously. Are you done here? Sorry, most rednecks aren't acceptive. Its not racist. Its a fact. Just because you are a redneck and ARE acceptive, then you are a great person. Nobody said ALL rednecks, or at least I didn't.
Most Americans are obese. I'm I being racist against americans for stating the facts? Does it mean ALL americans are obese? No! I think I basically cleared this up.
Redneck is to someone from the south like Whitetrash is to scum from the streets. To me, it doesn't mean EVERYONE from the south or every white person from the city. It means the people WHO are described in the term REDNECK or White trash.
Are we done throwing this topic off course? Or is this going to keep going on until someone is forced to lock it?
And yes, judging by your first reply, even if you were being sarcastic, you still came off as an asshole. At least, in my opinion.
So yeah, when someone talks about a redneck, they aren't referring to YOU personally. Just people that probably live near you who possess the "redneck" traits. I don't know how I can make it more clear. Thats what I mean when I talk about rednecks, I can't speak for everyone else in this thread, though. I am not racist nor homophobic. In fact, asking if something I am saying is a "bit homophobic" in a thread where I am openly admitting that I am bisexual strikes me as kind of ... odd.
If a man tells a racist joke, does it automatically make him racist? No.
I rest my case.
Spit out your stride gum and chew another piece already... or I'll haunt you.
Has anybody ever told you that you tend to overreact?
I went to school in 7th and 8th grade every single morning on a bus that came out of the worst parts of the city. There weren't very tolerant people on that bus, seeing as I was one of only a few people who wasn't black. I was shown intolerance by the majority of the black kids on that bus, yet I don't go around calling anybody a ******, because I'm better than that.
The fact that I'm white had absolutely nothing to do with the reasons why I wasn't generally well-liked on that bus, just as the fact sexual orientation doesn't have anything to do with the reasons why these "rednecks" you keep referring to, are so intolerant towards anything that differentiates from their own ideals.
The undertone is a sociological tradition. In rural southern communities, the majority of the people are generally fundamentalist Christians or Catholics. Their religion states that a union should only exist between a man and a woman. Those are their beliefs, and they stick by them, which is quite respectable, and they generally don't hate you. More so, they just don't approve. Hate is against their religion. Disapproval isn't. Just as they don't understand your bisexuality, you don't understand them.
Needless, you don't need anybody's approval to state who you are. I may be a giant douche, but I do know what I'm talking about.
Yes, people have told me I overreact and I'm well aware of that. I am just trying to clear every thing up in this thread before it gets way out of hand.
On a positive note, my Great Grandmother was a "redneck" and the sweetest woman on earth.
My parents are also "Catholic"
I suppose when I die that means I will be forgiven any crimes of the like through fault of imperfect human sin, or however that line goes O.O
You're making your point and I'm making mine. I believe some black people are indeed worthy of the N word. Not that I use it. But those black gangs, you know? The stupid black people? I refer to the white gangs as White Trash. I'm not racist because I don't apply it to the whole race. You may be from the south, but I wouldn't call you a redneck. Do you see what I am trying to say? I'm speaking for myself though, I don't know what everyone else means when they use the term "redneck" nor do I really care. To each their own.
In fact, the only reason I am voicing my take on all of this is because you quoted me.
Spit out your stride gum and chew another piece already... or I'll haunt you.
My point wasn't who does or doesn't deserve a racial slur. Nobody deserves a racial slur, because racism is ****ing retarded. Society and tradition vary between cultures, but people as individuals are generally the same.
My point was rather, why bother using racial slurs against these people? So they discriminate against you. You discriminate against them, which ideally makes everything balanced and fair. You apparently don't care if anybody approves or disapproves of you, yet that's difficult to see with all the stereotype hostility going on.
You're bisexual. Fantastic. Your chances of getting laid are now doubled. If you live in a part of the world were that kind of thing is frowned upon, then why announce it? Just because you don't come out and announce who you are doesn't mean you're lying to yourself, which is one of the reasons why I never understood the point of people "coming out of the closet."
You would be surprised how little these people actually adhere to said religion.
In the same Testament where it says that a man lying with a man the same way he would lie with a woman is an abomination, it also says many other things, including:
Deuteronomy 22:5 - The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
Women wear pants, don't they? ABOMINATION!
Deuteronomy 22:9 - Thou shalt not sow thy vineyard with divers seeds: lest the fruit of thy seed which thou hast sown, and the fruit of thy vineyard, be defiled.
People mix crops all the time. It's how many folks sustain themselves around here.
Deuteronomy 22:11 - Thou shalt not wear a garment of divers sorts, as of woollen and linen together.
Cotton-Polyester blend anyone? Almost everyone at my work (Wal-Mart) wears a Cotton-Polyester blend polo shirt. Almost everyone here claims to be a devout Christian.
Deuteronomy 22:13-21 describes how if a woman is not a virgin before marriage, she should be stoned. Texas has some of the highest rates of teenage pregnancy and shotgun weddings in the entire country. Real adherent!
Deuteronomy 22:22-29 describes punishments for various types of infidelity... none of which take place, despite RAMPANT infidelity. Nearly once a week I hear one of my co-workers bemoan the loss of a significant other due to infidelity... not because they were caught and stoned to death for it.
Leviticus 18:6 - No one is to approach any close relative to have sexual relations. I am the LORD.
Inbreeding is rampant here. There are like 5 families in the town I work in. Goehmann, Reeh, Crenwelge, Weinheimer, and Usener. Everyone else is either a tourist here coming for Fredericksburg's famous peaches or a semi-permanent resident, hence Fredericksburg nickname of "God's Waiting Room".
Leviticus 18:23 - Do not have sexual relations with an animal and defile yourself with it. A woman must not present herself to an animal to have sexual relations with it; that is a perversion.
It's actually kind of a rite of passage for high school boys around here to trap a goat in a fence and penetrate it. One kid at the Harper ISD was dubbed "Baaaaahbby" for being caught in this practice.
And of course, the one every "good" Christian knows...
Leviticus 18:22 - Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.
Yes, I know, it's a huge tl;dr list, but it proves a point. Defending these people's faith and decisions based on that faith when they barely adhere to it in the first place doesn't make much sense. It's not as simple as confusion and misunderstanding, it's hatred. You should try living with these people. It's downright scary at times how deep their hatred of others runs.
Yes, the term redneck is a slur, but it is not a racial one. It's class distinction. Anyone, regardless of race, can be a redneck.
How I'm I being racist? Or homophobic or any of the things you said? All I said was redneck. Racist slurs? I'm not racist. They're not used in a racial contest, their used to identify a group of people, not the entire race. Did you read my post at all? Are you going to keep trying to kick dirt in my face?
If you don't care about me coming out of the closet in the first place (which is a stupid term btw) why the hell did you post in the topic? To be a smart ass and start shit? Dude, I explained myself already. But you just want to lump me together with everyone else and BASICALLY call me racist. Someone else used the term Redneck when talking about "someone" I'm assuming from the "south" and I used redneck back because I wanted to be sure we were talking about the same people.
God... You know what? I'm not even going to waste my time typing all this out again. THIS IS NOT IN THE (Let's argue back and forth forum) so just DROP IT already AND MOVE ON!
Next time you decide to be a smart ass and post in a topic that you don't exactly agree with the subject (in this case coming out of the closet) then do yourself a favor next time and keep your freaking hands OFF the keyboard. By that, I mean don't freaking bother replying.
Are. We. Done. Now?
In case I seem crouchy? I haven't slept for two f**king days. You know what else I consider stupid? Using the word retarded. That is insulting to the mentally challenged.
See why it doesn't pay to nitpick everything? Also, a lot of people coin rednecks as argumentative, just saying =/ But then I guess that would apply to most of the human populations, right? See, another out of whack theory. What I mean is, we could do this for years.
Agree to disagree and get over it. Or did you miss OceanEyes28's post the first time?
EDIT.
I also agree with the post above.
Hypocrites? I see them all the time. Its happening here, right now, in this topic. So next time, pulling religion in to defend why someone would be "odd toward me" is just rat crap. Seriously, we've all pulled that card before and it doesn't mean jack!
EDIT 2
Also, my chances of getting laid are not doubled. Getting laid involves sexual intercourse which is basically impossible unless you have penis and vagina. Obviously.
Its also not my fault most people from the south "act like rednecks"
I'm not being racist. Sure, generalizing a group of people from the south, but not all of them. Not the whole race.
Most people think lesbians look like men. Am I going to disagree and call it a stereotype? No, because for the most part it is true for the majority of gay women. But not all of them. See what I'm saying finally?
Last edited by Howling Wind; 02-16-2011 at 09:25 AM.
Spit out your stride gum and chew another piece already... or I'll haunt you.
I don't mean to be 'off topic' but your chances of getting laid -are- doubled. He means you can get laid with guys -and- girls. Two chicks can have sex just like a guy and a girl can. Oh wait, now I see why you thought that. I keep forgetting how old you are. Oops.
Just thought I'd clear that up. And also the majority of 'gay women' aren't butch/tomboys. I think that's kind of a minority. But anyway... Considering where this topic went, I think it pretty much served its purpose and is now just spiraling into another topic altogether.
Last edited by Victoria; 02-16-2011 at 09:49 AM.
True but still. Suppose someone did say that. I wouldn't get pissed off and call them sexist. I would assume they meant the (minority or majority) that are, and not all lesbians.
Also, maybe I should blame my parents but. Getting laid to me was always something between a man and a woman. But I do see your point, I mean, I see how it can go both ways so I'm not arguing or nothing. And I guess they could have sex "Pretty close to how a guy and a girl can" like, if you count strapons and stuff like that. Though yeah, you have a point.
I still don't see why he keeps bothering to reply. Its like he is lumping me together with everyone else uses the term "Redneck" just to keep the fire burning. Almost like he didn't read many of my posts. If he doesn't "care about me coming out of the closet" and is going to be a smart ass (sarcastic or not) about it, why bother posting?
It doesn't contribute anything and obviously puts the worst toward the topic.
Edit:
Also I should add that it probably depends on where you live. Around here most gay women (or one of them in the relationship) is more butch and I guess dykish (now watch, someone is going to call me out for using the word dyke. I've heard lesbians use that word for crying out loud xD) than the other. BUT there are a lot of people too that are a gay (female) couple and you would never know because they both look positively feminine.
Last edited by Howling Wind; 02-16-2011 at 09:54 AM.
Spit out your stride gum and chew another piece already... or I'll haunt you.
I find where this discussion has lead to be very ironic. Every single one of my posts were about how it doesn't matter if anybody disapproves of your bisexuality, yet you only commented on the parts of which I defended the supposed intolerant party.
You said nice things about everybody else who told you not to care what other people think. I wonder why you aren't saying nice things about me.
You're welcome, by the way.
^ Thats what happens when posts get all jumbled together in a good for nothing tissy in a thread that isn't intended for it. One of the reasons I hope it would stop when OceanEyes28 asked it to.
So, in hopes that this will end, thank you =D
EDIT: By jumbled I mean everyone replying in this great pile of posts (wall?)
Not that your posts are jumbled, Clint
Last edited by Howling Wind; 02-16-2011 at 10:07 AM.
Spit out your stride gum and chew another piece already... or I'll haunt you.
It is good to have the bravery to come out and confess something like that good job. I use to be kind of Bi-Sexual when I was 9-14 or so but never told anyone but my Sister who I am best friends and closest with.
I also have struggled with gender identity problems since I was 7 until now and I do not think that will ever go away either. I still truely want to be a woman I do not like being a man.
The thing with me though is I am now a born-again Christian as of February 14 2008 and homosexuality is a sin and transgenderism as well. So it puts me in a uncomfortable position; however I know the LORD JESUS loves me even with my flaws and I love him and want to do his will and feel him in my heart so I know he has not forsaken me.
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