I find myself friends with more men than women. Lately it's probably more balanced since I have been hanging out with more of my friends, and they have girlfriends now, meaning more friends.
If you have a jealous girlfriend, what's a whole other issue. One topic that was brought up in conversation last night when I was hanging out with a bunch of other women was if it's okay to hang out with other people your significant other doesn't know. Sometimes it makes the significant other uneasy, but we questioned why? Do they have thought of leaving their partner for someone else? Do they fear that you have those thoughts too? This is where lots of healthy communication comes into play and reassurance. However, if you are (or even them, sometimes they're not always innocent), it's time to re-evaluate your relationship.
Then again, I could just be speaking hogwash since I haven't been in a relationship myself for many years now, ^_^ I like having the amount of friends that I have and not feel sexually attracted to them. It's nice when there are no strings attached. I can be like, Dude, lets hang out! And not worry about it ending with sex.






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