You just do whatever it is that you have to do at the moment, and then you justify and make sense of everything after the fact. That's what I do when everything turns to shit. Sometimes you just have to say **** it and bail, sometimes you have to endure, and sometimes you have to make the hard decision. Sometimes you just have to sit there and take it, fight like hell or leave it up to the powers that be. It really depends on the situation and how it affects you. At the end of the day, you have to do what's best for yourself.