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This is Starman's first post

He's 20. So is this chick he likes.

His friend Chris introduced him to Claire.

Claire is abstinent.

Starman and Claire have things in common.

Starman still hasn't asked her out. Some guy named Leon almost blew his cover.

Starman shared his feelings with Claire but didn't make his move.

Leon asked Claire out for Starman because he was being a lame.

Claire now thinks Starman is a creeper.

Starman wrote a zombie story.

Some people told Claire it was a romance about him and her.

Chris told Starman to move on. Probably because he has other guys talk to Claire for him.

Some chick told Starman to go for it anyways.

Starman doesn't know what to do.
Starman. You're 20. What the hell are you posting about this on TFF and talking to all these other people for? Maybe you should just actually talk to Claire and tell her that you want to take her out to dinner. That's it, plain and simple. Use the date to get to know her better, maybe she'll realize that you're not only a nice guy, but a strong guy with the willpower to go up to a girl he likes, look her in the eyes, and tell her the way things are.

You ever watch Star Trek? Remember Capn Kirk? Did he EVER go all over asking his friends what they think he should do when he's interested in a chick? Hell no. He knows what he wants, and he goes for it, CAPN of the Enterprise style. James Bond. You ever see him ask his friends about a girl? Or does he just walk up to her and charm the panties off her? You know the answer to that question. You know what you have to do. No amount of talking to people on the internet or talking to friends will give you the guts to go up to her and say it. That comes from inside of you. Worst that can happen is she says no (again), but at least this time it will be YOU asking her instead of some guy who's got nothing to do with the situation. Ask her, accept the answer, and live with it whether it's what you want or it isn't. You can't make somebody like you, and at least that way people might respect you for knowing what you want and not being afraid to ask for it.

I've said all I need to say.

-- Hobag out